17 November 2010
MY QUERY IS RELATED TO ONE OF MY FRND PROBLEM
SHE IS GOOD STUDENT SECURED 88% IN +2 AND ALSO GOT GUD MARKS IN CPT
NOW SHE IS IN PCC BUT DUE TO LUCK PROBLEM SOMETIMES BY HER MISTAKES SHE LOST HER THREE ATTEMPT( FILL EXAM FORM , GOT ADMIT CARD BUT ABSENT IN EXAM)
AS PER MY KNOWLEDGE IN FIRST HER CA DOES GAVE ENOUGH TIME IN SECOND SHE GOT DEPRESSED IN THIRD HER HAND GOT FRACTURED
NOW SHE IS VERY DEPRESSED TO THINK THAT SHE WILL NOT ABLE TO CLEAR CA BECAUSE SHE MAKES A BAD RECORD BY KEEP ABSENT IN EXAMS SOO INST WILL NOT PASSED DUE TO BAD RECORD
IS IT POSSIBLE THAT INST WILL NOT PASS HER DELIBRATELY AUR MAKES HER WAY COMPLICATED
17 November 2010
The problem is not that your friend is not clearing her exams but she is unable to depressed. I think what she needs is someone to boost her and make her feel that it is achievable. Let her know instances when people had turned failures to success. You should let her know that without appearing in the exams she will not be able to clear her exams. Give her the lesson that successful people have a long list of failures and they learn from their past failures. As regard the Institute doing wrong thinks is out of question because you should not think in such a manner. Try to control thinks which you can and rest will follow. No one is related to any Institute and so "believe in oneself will only help".
17 November 2010
Hi Pallavi, Don't think if anyone write exams more times, then institute will not pass them.Give her moral boost up and encouragement.Don't believe in luck but believe in hard work & determination. Tell her about Stephen Hawkings, the great living scientist in the world at present. He cannot walk, his senses doesn't work, he sits in a wheel chair and still he is continuing his research work daily. Your friend is far better than him, right? Tell her not be so depressed. All the best.
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