21 October 2012
Actually I was a good student before .. I passed my high school with a ranks too.my parents has a high hope for me especially my dad..I can get every excuses except with the case relating with my studies..he is really so strick..I haven't even talked to him with my head up till now. The point I want to take to u is.. I really had a depressing year this time due to some personal circumstances..I cudnt concentrate at studies at all .. I had been so much painful moments throughout this year..but my parent doesn't have idea even about the small traces .. After 10 days I am going to give Ipcc nov exams 2012..but let's me sure ..my mind is 100% blank .. My father thinks that I will surely pass..with rank.. Oh god plz help me ..I have a chance to get 0 on 7 subjects n he talks about getting rank.. He even knws that ca is tough one however he think if other students can pass why can't I .. One more thing..some one told me that if a students fails in 1st attempt with such a shameful low marks next attempt icai board filters the name and makes failure again n again is that true.. I am so scared n scared..look I can't post pond may exams till may as my father starts asking me the reason.. Plz I am realy very scared what should I do knw plzz
You are taking this matter very seriously. Firstly let me remind you there is no such policy of filtering by ICAI. It is advisable that you should talk with your parents. No one else in world can understand you more than your parents. It is only a communication difference.
If your dad is strict, talk to your mom. Be positive. Running away will create more problems and you can never resolve your matter with your parents in future. There is long way to go and how long you will hide this way ???
21 October 2012
Thank u so much sir for the advices.. I have told everything to mom.she tells me to give exams in the next attempt ..my father is really very strict..he doesnt listen to anyone at all .. He s so quick tempered.. I can't deal with him ..
23 October 2012
just one small suggestion. jst convince ur father that for getting rank u have to do little more prepration and thus you want to skip this attempt and will give next attempt with better prepared. anyway as you said you are not going to pass in this attempt its better that you skip this attempt. once you are able to convince your father, you can study good for next attempt and even if you do not get rank but you are passed i guess your father will be ok with it.
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