28 November 2013
Sir/ MAdam, I am an aspirant of CA Since 2006. started my journey from PE1 given 2 attempts cleared CPT in 3rd attempt completed articles in 2011 appeared pcc 6 attempts ipcc appeared 2nd time in nov 2013 i got married in feb 2013 unable to clear exames facing depression & stress loosing confidence day by day unable to judge myself i want to become a CA but m completely lost. can you help how should i move further people are asking me to guit & i am unable to accept that after every six months its a tuff time for me transforming into tears Please guide i dont want to be a lost stone down the lane i want to achieve my destination please help
28 November 2013
Speak to your colleagues or your teachers about what is going wrong with you.Analyse what is not working for you. If you have institute's certified copies then ask analyse your weak areas. It is other people's decision that you should quit,it is not yours.If you have faith in your abilties & want to be a CA someday then be strong & take it as a challenge.Instead of considering it a horrible phase ,learn from your mistakes.Instead of getting depressed & weak,just join a CA firm to be updated ,no matter what amount they pay you.Atleast you will be updated by the time you become a CA.Further,appear groupwise instead of appearing in all papers together. The more stressed & negative you become the more you are likely to attract negative & hopeless people & circumstances in your life.Take your decision if you( not what others say) want to quit & move then do it & forget CA completely but then never repent back for your decision. Otherwise ,be bold & face the reality & don't run from it.Learn from your failures instead of giving a tag of failure to yourself.If you are considering yourself as a failure ,no other person on this earth can give you good value.Easier said than done,but unfortunately you have only 2optins either quit & move ahead or learn,analyse & fight back to be a CA. All the best
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