16 February 2016
Please help me. some time i reliase kill himself because i am 26 yr old and i am in cs execitive i fail last 3 yrs.and meri age bhi nikalti chali ja rhai hai mai kya karo mai bhut pershan hu sir/mam kisi se baat krta hu toh shram aati hai ab man krta hai ki suicide kar lo.
16 February 2016
I have seen one query from you this in December 2015 also,, let me tell you please don't carry pain for many days, sit calm and discuss with parents and your best friends and decide what to do,
Everybody will have their own identity and no need to feel shram ,you cant achieve success when u sit in this negative thoughts and feel depressed for months.You need to come out from fear of failure and learn from your mistakes
It is not possible to fail for 3 years continously unless you don't taken care of your mistakes or not learning from your mistakes
discuss with your friends or teachers and learn what are those mistakes you have done
One simple advice i can give you is join with Practicing CA, OR CS and learn some practical experiance and give exams,
If you really need only JOB firms like EY,KPMG offers jobs for B.COM graduates go for it,
Just sit calm and think why you not able to achieve your GOAL you will get some thoughts may be they are your reasons
If you strongly feel you have tried seriously for 3 years but you failed,,it's okay just exit from CS and think about what to DO now, DON'T PRESSURE YOURSELF MUCH DON'T BLAME YOURSELF,.....You need to come out of this bad feeling quickly
FINAL NOTE:
Come out of your fear of failure and past failures.Just think what you need to do now CS or something else? decide yourself..quit CS if you think you cant pass it,,think about what to do if not CS
13 March 2016
Good advice given by Ganesh...Not becoming a CS is not the end of the world....So dont even let such stupid idea come to your mind...Firstly you need to have a calm head...Thinking to much negative will only harm you.... Quitting will not be solution...
I know a person you completed CS at the age of 40+...Right now he is in teaching profession...His CS students are clearing in single attempts..He is earning quite handsomely...better than CS in jobs. I don't think he remembers the no of attempts he took to become CS.
See the fact is try to learn and if you do that no of attempts is no criteria. At 26 you are still very young..I completed my CS at the age of 30.
The problem if your negative thinking. Everything is in your brain...If you stay positive and think positive only positive things will happen in your life.
You are welcome for any further query or discussion. You can also have our no and discuss and clear any doubts...
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