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Vijayalakshmi.K (ICWA Final ) (324 Points)
Replied 28 December 2011

If you compare yourself with others, you are insulting yourself.

If somebody says that why you not earing much, or why are you still struggling, dont answer them with your word of mouth, be silent, your sucess will give answer to them..

:-):-):-)

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Dinesh V (Audit Assistant) (131 Points)
Replied 28 December 2011

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CA PRABHAKAR JHA (ACA) (313 Points)
Replied 28 December 2011

Originally posted by : uma..
hiiiiii friends
 
i am CA Final student and these days i am have got  mental disturbed due to several reasons
 
Firstly i am 23yrs old and now when i see my school friends being engineers from IIT and NIT earning packages of 12lacs n visiting abroad at thiz age for research work, i feel depressed for myself being sitting at home idle
 
Secondly i am unable to concentrate for my May 2012 attempt due to the upcoming changesin IFRS, Schedule 13th, company bill and many more
 
thirdly , when i joined the CA course initially all people said there is a great scope in it. But due to diz May 2011 result i have seen my CA friends unemployed for several months and now employed in relatively low package.
 
I am unable to sleep at night.
 
Plz suggest. me what to do??
 
I am badly depressed.


Buddy you are only 23 year old, think about those giving examination again and again not clearing CA Final and have crossed 30 years. So you are better of than those.

As you have raise ? on the prospect of the chartered accountant in future, I would like to tell you think like a professional, not like an employee of some reputed organisation, you have deep understanding of business.

I will tell you, if you dont get an opportunity in a big organisation, that is also not a big problem. It may hurt you in initial year, but you have capacity to read and write. There are lot many field for chartered accountant, if you become expert in one of the field you will have abundance of opportunity with you.

One thing which you may also have noted, there are acute shortage of expert in our profession, there are more chartered accountant in our profession but they behave like a employee of some organisation just meeting their routine job and hoping some day he will promoted.

 

But all the above require patience and regular study with an expert eye, it may take only 2-3 years to become expert in any one of field like Direct Tax, Indirect Tax, Audit & Assurance, Financial Management etc etc you may addon there are number service which you can offer

 

Be positive, Belive in yourself, now you are no more a child, you are professional , expert of various field fo business,

 

We will have a bright future definitely....

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Hari Kishore (Proprietor) (39 Points)
Replied 28 December 2011

Hi, no need to worry. Packages are based on individual capacity. So, dont compare it on basis of degrees.

Just work hard. Focus on study. Don't think negative.

Try to divert your mind in positive directions(like entertainments) whenever negative thinking disturbs you.

We belong to profession where we have to face regular amendments in laws. Dont treat it as a weakness. In fact, these amendments are our assets bcz these depicts our true value.

For now, you concentrate on your syllabus.

And remember, every bad thinking has an end....so end it ....beleive in GOD. Think about parents and your target.

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(Guest)

hey dear just relax its ok.rome was not built in a day dear.c today u r feeling depressed of ur situation but imagine when u'll b ca then it will b a whole new story,y r u seeing those unemployed ca look at those who r well placed ,hv a dream to hv that position,every profession has its own drawbacks,and b urself buddy do what ur heart says and coming at ca final level is a big deal and nw also if u do MBA side by side u can earn even higher package than ur frnds and u r jst 23 u can do wonders my dear,nw when u r so near to ur dream career dont keep urself deprived of it bcoz of some wasteful thoughts,hv confidence in urself and hv faith in god.concenterate on ur studies jst few more months and u'll b ca and ur frnds will b far behind u buddy,live upto ur goals,CA is a very respectable profession. jst dont think anything else go for it gv ur best shot and come out wid flying colours.god help those who help themselves.all the best.

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krishna kumar (CA Final) (407 Points)
Replied 28 December 2011

Hi Uma,

      this confusion should have to come before joining the CA course or the earlier period of your CA course joining.  Now you have invested your valuable time in this course and qualified the intermediate as well,  a step away from being a CA.

       don't ever think that, the value of this course is deteriorating.  atleast you do not bother about this till you have qualified.  some pessimists are always around us to demotivate us by saying that we are wrong in whatever we are doing.

        from my personal experience,  i am belongs to a poor family could not have reached this position, if i haven't joined this wonderful course.  if you divert your concentration and energy in such unnecessary thought, you may not be able to qualify.  so, reinvent your energy and concentrate on study, i am wishing you all the success in the coming MAY.

       

 

 

      

 

 

 

 

hiiiiii friends
 
i am CA Final student and these days i am have got  mental disturbed due to several reasons
 
Firstly i am 23yrs old and now when i see my school friends being engineers from IIT and NIT earning packages of 12lacs n visiting abroad at thiz age for research work, i feel depressed for myself being sitting at home idle
 
Secondly i am unable to concentrate for my May 2012 attempt due to the upcoming changesin IFRS, Schedule 13th, company bill and many more
 
thirdly , when i joined the CA course initially all people said there is a great scope in it. But due to diz May 2011 result i have seen my CA friends unemployed for several months and now employed in relatively low package.
 
I am unable to sleep at night.
 
Plz suggest. me what to do??
 
I am badly depressed.



(Guest)

Just rebulit your confidence and stop comapring yourself with someone.

Be optimistic. 

 

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piya sharma (...) (50 Points)
Replied 28 December 2011

do u have that junoon song of ca.....if u dont have pls listen.....

u will be motivated...

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CA Priyanka Kushwaha (Chartered Accountant) (1072 Points)
Replied 28 December 2011

Agree with Vinodh.

Dear, you are not idle at home, lets say that you are creating way for your bright future. Pls dont compare yourself with others and never go towards negative thinking.

Take away your mind from these thinkings and just concentrate on your study. 

Originally posted by : vinodh


Remember U r Unique and different from others.  and be proud that u had choosen challenging professional course.  Stop Comparision.  just be yourself.  Think and have clarity and clear idea.  feeling upset and distressed and sitting simply is of no use.  Continious striving to achieve something is the criteria.   Just think and change ur way of thinking. Y cant u take those issues of ur friends in positive sense. N U too can earn bit more in future.  regards..

The way you think and act.

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(Guest)

DEAR,

 

1) NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE, IT IS JUST A MATTER OF TIME.

2) WE CHARTERED ACCOUNTANTS HANDLLED CARORES OF COMMERCIAL TRANSACTION

3) 23 IS QUITE YOUNG. DON'T U THINK SO. TONS OF OPPORTUNITIES WAITING FOR YOU.

 

 

WATCH THE SECRET VIDEO FROM YOUYUBE. IT WILL SURELY BOOST YOUR MORAL. 




(Guest)

THE END. smiley


C.A. Sanjay Bhatia (CA) (496 Points)
Replied 28 December 2011

 

HAR PAL PE TERA HI NAAM HOGA,
TERE HAR KADAM PE DUNIYA KA SALAAM HOGA,
MUSHKILO KA SAMNA HIMMAT SE KARNA,
DEKHNA EK DIN WAQT BHI TERA GHULAM HOGA......
.

 

its nothing just remember empty vessel makes the most noise

just concentrate on ur studies... and try to do well n clear the exams

Just take the Changes, as a challenge , give your 100 % and leave rest to god.

 

n then u know that -"ek din gaaliyo ka shor bhi taaliyo ki gadgadahat main badal jaega"

 

 

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Ramshankar (Executive Internal Auditor)   (198 Points)
Replied 28 December 2011

Hi Uma,

Dont worry about your self. Dont compare you with any one in this world.

Problem 1: Your friends earning more than you.They finished their Degrees ur going to finish CA Profession soon. for Salary comparison CA's start with slow phase initially but once they pick up speed in earnings no one cannot stop them. but u need to believe ur self.

 

Problem 2 : Changes in IFRS/Schedule 13/Direct tax code etc.. we need to upgrade with changes in system & syllabus. even your Andriod smart phone asks for updations for applications which you downloaded. This is the best opportunity for you to groom too much in New updations. You need to follow what ICAI set syllabus for May exams only.Now a days there are too many professional but specialist in particular area are few.

 

Problem 3: Learn from their mistakes and take their lessons on why they didnot get jobs. First fore most you need to focus on CA finals which are hardly 4 months away from now. After exams you can learn good soft skills and interview cracking techniques in various sources.

 

Dont worry UMA if you focus on your CA now you can rock in this world. Now a days CA's are in high demand in across globe. I'm also experienced same problems in my life also. i'm 30 still in CA final both group. since 2004 i'm working for top notch Co. when ever i see my friends photos in Face book with their brand New car or their Onsite pics i wont feel bad i will motivate myself to clear CA quickly and grab good Job. 

 

All the Best

 

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