One thing is for sure that school and college days can never come back .The joys of college days cannot be compensated with anything  in the world.... I would trade of my one year of college with  anything in life ..

 Nevertheless there  is no point in regretting now as time has gone . it is past . You should be proud that by now you are much ahead in studies and you have a goal ... You can be CA very early in life..... now  there is very big positive  in this..

Hey, dont b upset. Rather u shud b [roud of urself.Infact, I tell u all of ur frenz who r enjoying their college life sooon will b jealous & regret dat y dey didnt study sincerely, I can bet abt it. I guess dey all must b from well-off families who dont hv tension of earning money as dey have der parents as financers but i bet dat soon u will reach d position where u dont hv to b depednant on ur parents like dem. Rather ur children wud thanku for giving dem a repectable std of living. This all hrad work wud pay u in the upcoming yrs. I 2 like u have invested my time in hard study & dats d best source of my enjoyment. Study is & was my passion I still cant forget dat golden college days where all professors recognise u as a sincere student & ready to sole all ur pronlems. U really feel honoured to learn dat these college days r d basis/pillar of ur professional life. U just need to have d r8 attitude to learn dat. I was so passionate abt study dat to attend d morning lecture of 7am, I used to wake up at 5 in d mrng & after finishing lectures of my own class if i find sum prof teaching very gud I used to sit in other clas & learn. I had been crazy enough to attend those lectures to jump from train when train halted due to heavy rain & reached to lecture hall.Eve, I never went to watch any movie Or hang out wid frenz as it never interested me. My whole & sole passion was only stud & i chose d frenz who were thinking like me. Rather, sumtimes, I have to insist dem dat lets go out & have sum refreshment. I used to postpone my lunch, no breakfast,& just study study & study. BUt it all were wonderful days.I remmeber during 5 yrs of my college v have been out to d nearest beach only once. only twice or so v attended our collge festival for which other college students were craving to b in.BUt all these were really memorable days as u feel proud of urself to b those few people who lv dat dedication, & spark widin demselves.& after lecture session I used to sit in college library & study my ca & cs sudy. While I finished my graduation I had two degrees in hand . B. com, Cs & CA final..:)I remember all students used to c me wid respect & wished dat dey too cud have done it.Isnt it gr8 to b inspiration of sum one.!! So, My friend, dont feel depressed,life is d way u look at it. Love it, it will love u back. Enjoy every moment. take care. BUt i know in near future all this will pay me d great reward.

hey dear

i also felt same even every CA student feels the same but dont be afraid

Ur friendz are enjoying 3 years but u will enjoy 30 years after u become a chartered n u will be in the top of the world

and i bet if u joined thiz course after ur graduation , u would have been afraid of ur friendz who had completed there engineering and working with big companies with big packages as i do feel since my CA Final is still pending and my school friends are enjoying there job abroad in china & tokyo

So dont be afraid and do ahead crack CA Final and enjoy rest of ur life

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Oh Dear Go green

grass on the other side is always greener, so stop looking at what they are enjoying now and focus on what you are doing. 

Time will take its own turn and you will see the same guys in future looking at you commanding respect, high post and income and those who are smiling at you will cry at themselves.

What goes around always comes around, so be cheerful and give ur best to what u r doing.

regards

The title : Please console me.......

The Appeal : Can anyone please help me? I am in the most worst phases of my life.

So, dear Go Green - the incognito help-seeker, what do you want the members here to do? If, for you, the word console is synonymous to help or vice versa, then I must admit that you have got them aplenty from some very big names here.

But please help me get rid of my naive confusion. After investing your time and expectation (that members here will show some way out of your dejection), you have gone invisible. It appears that contrary to Ankur Garg Ji's conviction, you are NOT convinced by all the efforts to motivate your hapless soul. Confusingly paradoxical as it may seem, I'm bound to think that it is true.

" I regret myself for starting my Chartered Accountancy immediately after 10+2 instead of after B.com.This is the biggest mistake in my life since I can never enjoy like them i.e., by bunking colleges, going to movies, hanging out with friends, Saturday night pubs, etc and college days will never come back again in my life."

I have a simple solution. Please do ponder over it, if you ever find time to come back here and see all the messages that endeavours to take you out of your self-dug hole. Renounce the CA course and join a college for full-time B.Com. If you seriously think that joining this one of the most prestigious courses before rejoicing such delightful excercises as mentioned by you, is THE BIGGEST MISTAKE of your life. With such a negative and depressed mindset, even if you complete CA Final as unhindered as your earlier endeavours, chances are very slim that you'll be able to grab all the opportunities that this much-sought-after course ( after completion of the same) will present at you.

With the hope to have a communication from your end,

I remain.

Regards.

U urself have to rethink what u want njyment for short span or njyment of lyf tym.......u want njyment so dnt u think by spending with our close frnds n with our family nly.we can njy much more......well u shld missed all ur fun days r8t ? how cud u say dis yaar.......dnt u think books itself give us plenty of njyment aftr we all get passed with flying colrs in xams.............so dnt regret 4 nything rather start njy 4 been d lucky ever which u did till today.....

Regards

~Ritesh(Simple Living High Thinking)

I would like thank all the members who have posted their suggestions/views/comments (whatever). 

Mr. Vishal has mentioned in his post that  school and college days can never come back .The joys of college days cannot be compensated with anything  in the world.... I would trade of my one year of college with  anything in life . Nevertheless there  is no point in regretting now as time has gone .

Yes school and college days can never  come back and that is the reason why I am regretting now. 

But I realised that time has gone and there is nothing that I can gain now by regretting.

no matter where you go .. the road not taken will make you think...that the road not taken is bettr... but my friend...no life is tensionless...limited time create tension ...limited space creates tension....and we r here for limited time... and we have only limited space...in this time and space of universe....u cn live a tension free life..by your will...so be proud of wht u hv chosen....because pleasure lies in chosen path.. its juzt we dun realise it until we lose our path

Hi,

Very few are blessed to do these professional courses and you are one of the luckiest among them.

As one of our friend already commented, the real happiness lies in doing the right things at right time.  And you have taken the right step. 

Never look back, go ahead.  Be a role model for others. Think big.  There lies the true happiness.

All the Best

Sireesha

What do you mean by Enjoyment. Are you thinking that by going movies, bunking classes, making girl friends is enjoyment? Who is stopping you ?

Enjoyment never ends.  It only depends on you. Now u are doing articleship. Its like your college days when you dont have to study anything. Enjoy this time.

Study one year before appearing in Final. 

Don't regret on past. enjoy the future. it is well said that one bird in hand is better than two in bush.

Today’s thorn is tomorrow’s FLOWER.

I am totally agree with Archna Maam...Though at some corner of our heart there's such a feeling that we hadn't enjoyed our college days,but after be a CA/CS u will feel very proud...

 Best of Luck for your bright future after be a CA.

  Focus on ur Studies!!