Please console me.......

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Dear friend,every one have their own feelings..i dont regret yours.infact i too felt the same.rather than felt it would be apt to say that im feeling it even now..but you know certain things happen,which we should think is of our good..we are not getting those now cos may be we may get that tomorow...now what we have in our hand is to focus and clear the task we took...im sure you will clear it..but clearing with happy soul is far important..so stay happy...read happy....complete it happily......and ur dream world is not far enough

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*RENU SINGH * (✩ §m!ℓ!ñġ €ม€§ fℓม!ñġ ђ♪gђ✩ )   (21627 Points)
Replied 06 January 2012

how can u say that u hav lost something....

Life is full of treasures, if you were enjoying your studies , then how can say u lost....

you will be on peak  of ur carreer when they will trying to start afresh. You hav surely made a right decision....

you are feeling this  because you don't possess your  study group frns whose enjoyment timing match with you.

who is stopping you for  enjoying ......

jst go for movies, sat pubs ....its not a big deal. Your life is not over yet.

And I think, wasting your time in such regret is  a mistake.

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Ms. Sia Raman (Chartered Accountant- Working Professional)   (198 Points)
Replied 06 January 2012

Hey....Even i had started my preparations immediately after 10+2....Even i had these feelings...about not enjoying my life....working..having to go to articleship when others are enjoying....!! These feelings are evident....the thing is How you deal with it?? While you are stepping into the web of Liesure and Depression......Have a thought over this....If everything goes well...You will be a C.A. at the age of 21...Isn't that a great feat??? Even today a C.A. at the First attempt is a rare case...Only 20 out of 100 clear ( Best Case...it can be worse)...Dont you want to be in the priveleged 20??? The life after you become a C.A. is Heaven...you dont have to worry anymore...!!! Do you want to enjoy the 3 years of your college or the Rest of your Life??? Give your best to your studies....the Best feeling is the Proud Moment when you clear C.A. in the FIRST ATTEMPT....the proud look of your parents....there is no feeling compared to that...!! I think you can sacrifise Bunking....Movies...for that feeling......Don't you????

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Santosh Ramaseshan (CA, CS ) (110 Points)
Replied 06 January 2012

Hello friends,

The life after you become a C.A. is Heaven...you dont have to worry anymore...!!!

I wish these lines would have been true. But from the little experience i have and wat ever my friends share, " Life after you become a C.A can be a HEAVEN, only u hv passion for this profession".

This profession can make sure  u get a 5-7 p.a CTC but it demands lot of dedication from our side.

Clearing the exam is just crossing the Ocean, but the Land mass ur entering after getting out of the Ship is bigger and chaotic. We have to be very clear and precise on wat u want from it or else ur literally lost in this professional world.

Cherish the moment of passing the exam, but get out of the hangover as soon as possible.

This is purely based on my personal experiences. I passed out  in May 10, but luckily had 8 months of articleship remaining, which helped me. But some of my friends who cleared after me, struggled because of this initially. So thought of share thing with you all.

Thanks

Santosh

 


pankaj chauhan (chartered accountants) (33 Points)
Replied 06 January 2012

 

Dear,

 

my case is quite opposite of you. If you guts then u can enjoy ur life at any time....




(Guest)

if u have not watched Dirty picture(movie) yet? then watch it ASAP, u wont regret it anymore.


CA.ViVeK M ACA (ACCOUNTS DEPARTMENT) (28544 Points)
Replied 06 January 2012

 

There are two principle in the life “Enjoy now and struggle later” and struggle now and enjoy later”. You have choosen second way.. This is the life and you have taken a correct decision for carrying out serious preparations rather than  hangout with pubs and girls. Do remember, No pain No gain

 


Vishwas V Rao ( Chartered Accountant) (239 Points)
Replied 07 January 2012

I feel you shouldnt bother bout all such good for nothing thoughts. Bunking college and other stuff mentioned by you is not the ultimate ends of life. Instead do something meaningful.

Enjoyment is a subjective term, and it differs from person to person. For me studyin and doing a complicated work at office is enjoyment and for a third party it may be different.

Live for yourself and not to please others.


Parashar (Company Secretary 2004) (1013 Points)
Replied 07 January 2012

BE A CA AND ENJOY LIFE


Vijayalakshmi.K (ICWA Final ) (324 Points)
Replied 07 January 2012

See,

Your friends who have enjoyed college life, may not have settled well with good job etc, May be in that bad position they should have made you feel so. Dont hear and worry for all these things..

Be happy..

 



kiran rathi (Finance Consultant) (100 Points)
Replied 07 January 2012

Hey dont worry u hvnt missed nythng instead it ws d wise decision 2 join d c.a.aftr 10+2... most f d stdnts r dng dis nly ....... nd regardng ol d fun dat u thng u hv missed bcz f ur C.A. dont worry dear Dont Worry frnd U wl B Gtng D opportunity 2 enjoy ol Dez Things In Ur C.a. Course also Dat z in ur GMCS classes..... nd m sure aftr gng through ur gmcs classes u wnt b hvng ny rgrt 4 missing d fun f ur clg dyz....

CA. Rakesh Jangid (B.com. & CA Finalist) (105 Points)
Replied 07 January 2012

Oh c'mon, don't give a damn of these college days, it's pathetic. I never had fun in my college days though I started after B.Com and believe I regret that now... It all depends on your personality that how you think and how mature you are. You are talkin' about mistake you never did and wants to learn from it..? Better be the way you're and be happy that you have learned without makin' a mistake... Enjoy ur studies tats it

Make life for yourself, take your own time...

BTW I see movies in my cellphone... download 'em from www.moviesmobile.net

;-)

 

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Ankur Garg (Company Secretary and Compliance Officer)   (114773 Points)
Replied 07 January 2012

Friend,

 

Don’t talk like this friend and stay away from negative thoughts. I promise you that you haven’t done any mistake and you are far ahead than your friends. You know what your best quality is --- your vision is clear and you have the rare ability to achieve it. My friend you are really blessed. You should not regret about the past.

 

Real truth is --- the burden of failure in your student life, in your professional life, in your family life is much more than the burden you are feeling now for not enjoying your life like your friends, which now is still possible with your family and friends.

 

Kindly consider God has saved you from some of the most burdensome situations of life like exam failure, low confidence etc. You know student life failure is one of the most powerful reasons of student suicides and you and your mind and your family is totally saved from this kind of problems.

 

You are very lucky my friend ki “jaisa tumna plan kiya waisa hi hua bcoz you made it possible which means you are a sincere and powerful guy.” Here lots of students are trying hard to get success but still facing failure. They don’t know the meaning of enjoyment. So please don’t say that you are in the most worst phase of your life and remember “kuch paana ka liya kuch khona bhi padta hai.” And believe me whatever you got is much more long lasting then the things you have lost.

 

Just consider that in the initial 15-20 overs of your life you have played carefully and now you are set and can play the shots of your choice. Also remember your batting power play is remaining. It is better to set yourself first if you are interested in a long inning rather than got yourself out early.

 

Always remember God has also given bowling power play to the opponent team (adverse life situations). Hence it is imp to set yourself on the pitch to face the bowling power play.   

 

So just thank God and your Parents for all the wonderful blessings and success.

 

Bhaisaab, aap convince ho gaye hai ya main aur bolu?

 

Best Regards

Ankur Garg

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Naresh Karuturi Chowdary (student) (245 Points)
Replied 07 January 2012

Mr. GO GREEN ( u didnt mention ur name) ... in life you will deserve one you can lose also one things( such as college days etc....)  this is the concept of life..  why you are so regret yourself? because you clear IPCC within the age of 21 around . some of my frnds will take to clear the IPCC\PCC|PE-II 9 to 10 attempts. some of them they will continue to write without leave the course. your problem is not as much big when compare to my frnds ( including me). you are in well track so keep continue.....

 

after all ur proper  planning and efforts you clear ur IPCC. it is not a easy matter. one thing is remember THIS IS MY OWN FRAMING QUOTE

 

"THE BIGGEST MOTIVATOR IN THIS WORLD IS YOU YOURSELF: YOU CAN DO SOMETHING GOOD DO FOR YOURSELF"

 

LOVE YOUR SELF

GOOD LUCK

Naresh.Karuturi

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HITESH (*Learner*) (201 Points)
Replied 07 January 2012

sorry yaar but i have to ask you one thing...what about those children who dont even have a shelter, no student life, etc etc...Dont they fall in the category of homosapiens(human beings). you must feel lucky that you got an GOLDEN opportunity to study and make your future secure .I THINK THAT IS MORE IMPORTANT FOR YOUR LIFE.ISN'T IT?? DUDE RELAX AND DONT BOTHER FOR SUCH UNHEALTHY THOUGHTS.

AND LET ME TELL  YOU SOMETHING IN KAREENA'S STYLE OF JAB WE MET-

"BAAT TOH TUM AISE KAR RAHE HO JAISE LIFE KHATAM HO GAYI HO TUMAHRI"



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