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I am Depressed.

Nirav (Accountant) (595 Points)

19 April 2010

Hello friends,

My name is Radhe. I have a problem that i m not happy in my life. I m 23, student of PE2.

Following are my marks of previous attempts:

May 07 - group 1 = 124 , group 2 = 122 -----result - FAIL

Nov 07 - group 1 = 144 , group 2 = 132 -----result - FAIL

May 08 - group 1 = 152, group 2 = 112 ----- FAIL in group 2 , PASS in group 1

Nov 08 - group 2 = 145 - FAIL

June 09 - group 2 = 127 - FAIL

Nov 09 - group 2 = 142 - FAIL

May 10 - I hope to clear it this time.

Guys now i m really depressed as to wat will happen to my career. i m not able to concentrate in other fields coz of running from May to November and November to May. Still my articleship to go for 3 yrs...i dun want to leave CA course. many people r telling to quit it...but everytime i get a hope that i will clear it this time...plz help me to get out of depression.

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CA Ayush Agarwal (Kolkata-Pune-Mumbai) (27186 Points)
Replied 19 April 2010

I Don't Want to Say Anything ....( Like Do Like This, Study Like This)

Bcoz You Know Each & Every Aspects..

Just Want To Suggest You One Thing That Take Another Option With CA For Earning Purpose.It Seems That You are Tax Preparer & Earning Also......

But I Want To Convey !!!

This Time You Will Definately Clear...

May God Bless You.

Best Of Luck For Your Examination.

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Ashish Sharma (Service) (1028 Points)
Replied 19 April 2010

Agree with Ayush,

further life is not for a CA result or any other result, its for live so don't think on one part, see your happiness in your family live for them. still not satisfy try to help other make friends , No need to be CA for being president of India, don't lose your heart.

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Amir (Learner) (4016 Points)
Replied 19 April 2010

Dear Radhe,

First don't be disheartened.............:)

Just make urself realize one thing that if u have not cleared till now still u have lost nothing..............

U have ur whole life ahead of u..........and its not that CA is the only thing in which one can make his/her career ............there are so many other options and u r 23 so its not that time has gone.....

I would say, take a call since u have been in this course for long, that this May/ November would be my last attempt - and then study like the way Dhoni batted yestrday - to make or to break...

If u able to study with that thing in mind then trust me 99.99% chances are there that u will make it..........cos invariably the reason for that so called Depression especially in the cases like urs is not the failure but the uncertainity regarding how long these things will go and what I will do after that and things like that.............

So once u are clear that after this May/Nov I won't be studing this again no matter what the result would be, u will derive a sense of comfort.....and thats all u need at this point.............

ALL THE BEST for ur Exams.........!

Hope that u make it to the Final in this May itself.........

Cheeer up............!

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CA. Dashrath Maheshwari (TaXpert) (15103 Points)
Replied 19 April 2010

You got passed in Group -1, so its clear that you have a analytical mind.

I think you are a Hindi Medium Student..

If yes,
do one thing... don't read each and everything of the book everytime.

If you have not made notes, get notes from your friends or co-scholar, take RTP (Revised test papers of previous 2 attemps. get them solved by yourself.

In each paragraph, there are something which is important to remember, just highlight that with a highlighter (Yellow Highlighter is preferred).

Don't mesh with books... have one reference material for each subject.

Get notes from only one coaching institute/friend (Don't waste time in reading all the notes from all the tutors)

As I thing, you must be working somewhere, If true, my kind suggestion is to leave that job completely. (For the time being you can get some account writting job for a few pence for livelihood)

Give your full egergy in real, (Think twice that, you are not only who is failing but there are many who are passing, then why not you).

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Ratan Deep Saxena (Asstt Manager (Accounts & Finance)) (2998 Points)
Replied 19 April 2010

Dear Radhe,

Don't let down by your result. You will definitely able to clear your exams in upcoming attempts. One thing i want to say you that never loose hope in your efforts coz if u have no faith in yourself, u can't win any game.

Try to study as usual as u normally studied and stay positive regarding your exams.

All d very best for your exams.....

God Bless.......

regards,

ratan

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Dhawal Mohnot (Practicing) (449 Points)
Replied 19 April 2010

Buddy ......Who says u have failed. I really applaud the guts you have had to come out open about your state of mind in this forum. I bet very few have such a kind of attitude. Half of your depression would have already subsided by posting this here.

Many of our learned seniors have already given the best possible advice. I would just want to share what i have seen of past 2 and a half yrs of my articles. I was wit a Big 4 for 2 years and most of the companies where i have worked, the finance department professionals where 1/2 CA (Final not cleared , Inter 1 group Cleared) but they were drawing a decent salary and were leading a content life.

So dont worry at all. You have a good life ahead. I pray to god that CA gets prefixed to your name sooner than later and you succeed in life. Just one thing i would want to advice is try taking up other courses like a MBA, CS, CIMA, CFA etc...,. Anything which interests you. It ll surely help in future.

All the best buddy.

Do lets us all know about your May Results.

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Ankur Garg (Company Secretary and Compliance Officer) (114773 Points)
Replied 19 April 2010

One simple advice.

I would recommend you to derive the desire to clear your exam from your parents !!!

Just dedicate your preparation to your parents and see the magic.

See—If you leave CA there would be no chance to succeed and if you continue you may do wonders !!!

Wish you all the Best

Prateek (B.Com(H) PGDBA CA Final) (436 Points)
Replied 19 April 2010

i think dont leave CA, i thnk u have good work exp also u can go for part time MBA like Fore School Delhi

and u can also go for ACCA,which has similar exams

mohammed lateef (article ) (101 Points)
Replied 19 April 2010

hello radhe,

hey buddy iam md.lateef the way you performed in your PE2 me too did the same in CPT i cleared it in my 5th attempt coz iam weak at maths u so may be feeling difficult wid one subject u chase the subject until u get away from it AND iam sure man u have taken out half of the burden by posting ur feelings here AND IAM SURE u will succeed this may 2010 and will be joining a CA for articleship very soon .

take care bye.

Balaji (student) (191 Points)
Replied 19 April 2010

dont worry radhe... there is a saying " good things come to those who wait"..study well ..this time u will clear..all the best..

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CA Ravi Sisodia (CA,CS,CMA) (32226 Points)
Replied 19 April 2010

jo hoga acha hoga. Dont worry dear

karm karte jaoo.

All the Best..........................

CA. RAJESH Kr. MAURYA (Chartered Accountant) (323 Points)
Replied 19 April 2010

`Dear Radhe...`

`The human's fate is in GOD's hand. We can not go beyond him. We have to accept his decision, whether we like it or not, whether it is in our favour or not........`

`But, even then I would like to add that if you are true on your part, his blessings will be showered on you........ Don't take his delay as his denial.........`

`Best of Luck... Look Forward, what happened is past, no one can change it, but future is yet to come and it depends on your today's time only. So, make your future by not wasting today.`

`Don't worry all will go well. Best of luck and May God Bless You........ .`

shilpi gupta (n.a.) (46 Points)
Replied 20 April 2010

I wish you all the very best

i pray you clear this tym with flying colours!

CourseCart.in (Mentor at SHAYVIDZ Academy) (3756 Points)
Replied 20 April 2010

Dear Radhe....

As Amir advised u in da best way, just do it accordingly...

& there is one benefit in MAY attempt that Paper of INCOME TAX covers 25-30 marks just from amendments... So this is the bonus marks... Info Tech is scoring subject.. Bas costing sambhal lena..

& do read theory in COSTING FM... it covers 30-35 marks...

ALL DA BEST DUDE !!!

Dont be disheartened... !