How to get the confidence
FUTURE CA (student) (497 Points)
17 September 2014FUTURE CA (student) (497 Points)
17 September 2014Dear Friend!
I have written Final 3 times and not passed...... at the fourth attempt i am also same as you.....i felt sad, i felt depressed...,not able to read properly; then one fine question I asked my self....! if i feel sad and get into depress more what will happen? will i get back any thing? if i dont try to read any and practice any, will i pass forthcoming exam? Answer to all these questions is DEFINITELY 'NO'
Then i convinced my self 'ok, whatever happened is happend and can not be changed and if i dont TRY it is certain that I will loss forth coming exam also, but if I TRY atleast there will be a CHANCE of SUCCESS....
by answering my self with this I started preparation slowly and finally I wrote exams and I passed First Gr in May 14 attempt.....Now I am again TRYing for Second Group....
I am not an intellingent I think I donta have right to tell any body like this but only by seeing my similar positin in YOU, telling my story.. if u understand it I will be happy for writing all this.....otherwise Sorry for boring you....
Keep smile and Let Yours' be happy!
I wish u good luck!!!
sandeep
(Audit Manager)
(26 Points)
Replied 17 September 2014
Nimish Goel
(Partner)
(7427 Points)
Replied 18 September 2014
Hi Future CA,
If you have chosen a brilliant name "Future CA" how can you then think of not becoming one. I completely fail to understand your lack of confidence.
Life is very tough friend. It will never give you anything on platter. You have to work extremely hard to achive success and those who dare to do that can only ask for it. I seriosuly believe that number of attempts does not signify intelligence or calibre to clear examinations. Thow who are extremely serious about studies and thier goals and aspirations and life, are the ones who clear the papers quikly.
The main reason I think why students fail to pass is becuase of lot of diversions in mind. Emails, Facebook, whatsapp, etc etc. These things can be done once you clear your papers,as you would have lot of time, but not at the moment when you are a student.
I would like to leave with a powerful thought "People who sweat more in training, bleed less in war".
I write a blog www.nimishgoel.com which basically helps students like you. Ans its free. Feel free to go there and ready my articles.
Wishing yu all green lights in life...