Hi frns..first lemme tel tht m ipcc stu..now also waiting 4 mah rslts..Bt still thx 4 ur support for d last forum “y v fail again n again” n asking me suggestion abt d same ..like wht should we do now ??
Actually last 1 week frm lohri 13 jan to 21 jan …I got tremendously hurted . everytime my 99% efforts got destroyed of 1 % other’s contribution ..everyday I convince myself to do more best ..no more luck prob this time …bt still pata nahi kahan se aa jati hai .now I have done my 99% efforts again n its results r on wait ……………………….so my situation is quite synonym wid u frnds …
Even one or 2 days I posted something really saddy types …all sent me pm regarding this …how can u b so negative ..whn all r being motivated frm u …seriously frnds it is really gud feeling ..whn u r helpful to others….
Get back to d topic …..
Heartbrk-------------- the most obvious thing…ur heart is really broken. U may even start regretting wht had happen wrong. U might b sharing ur feeling with d persons around u.Bt d broken heart don’t sound to others bt pain a lot inside. Everyone say move on …chill…it happens wid every1…..or some even wont care …they might start advising U to leave d CA for gud….Bt still even after showing their whole care, no one can feel d same pain as u r feeling. So d real suggestion is “don’t show ur feelings to others …bt confess to urself …how u feeling..tell urself ..jst unwind ur feelings…if u wanna cry ..let it b … n after feeling urself free frm those tears promise urself it wil never happen again ….jst hold this moment in ur eyes for forever”
Analysis ------------------ make analysis of ur mistakes,…where u were wrong. Check d sol..n compare ur answer. Find d real reason of ur failure….Not to blame ICAI bt find ur mistakes….until n unless u don’t find ur mistakes u cant do them r8.
Suggestion ----------------- heartbrk is normal bt some wil advice u for not to studying for 3-4 days ..or some wil say don’t waste ur time in crying. Some wil say do practical first or some wil say do theory first .bt I jst wanna say follow ur heart …it wil b really tough to read these books again …bt still jst remember the moment of urs feeling…n start reading frm where u really wanna start. Or start wid d best whom u scored high …or u feel gud at reading.
Feelings -------------------“sab bhul bhi jayen koi kuch yaad magar aata hai” so it wil happen again n again …whenever u wil study u wil remember ur past incidents ..u bound to cry … Bt my friend realize tht u really don’t have time for crying even though…bcz u need to give ur may attempt..n U hAVE to pass …no matter wht.
Study------------------ U knw frm ur heart tht wherever u were wrong. SO correct them ..find their sol..change d book if u really need so ..bt changing d book mst b a wise decision.
Set target---------- set the % u wanna achieve. N every time u do ur efforts combine them with ur results.ur result marks r d base of ur prepration …n think how far u r frm ur set% marks.
Sorry frns I don’t knw abt final yr sub..so don’t knw whts in d course.. otherwise I would have included some studytips also.
Habit -------include one thing in ur habit ,..which makes u happy. For instance ..I use to hear music until n unless I don’t get myself into it.So whenever u got upset …jst listen music, play guitar…or dance …do whtever cheers u.
Health------------many time our whole frustration comes on our food …or in certain way ..we use to trouble ourself.SO I jst wanna say take care of urself ..n make urself remind again n again ..tht u wanna succeed.
Wound heart has an burning desire to achieve which a normal mind cant ..so jst feel d pain ..n wrk towards ur goal…Ur pain should b ur power nt ur weekness.
Well frns..these r jst a part of story ,…if u use ur mind u wil get endless solutions..n sorry if I hurt some1 feeling anywhere
Regards
naina
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