This is called effective communication

Ram and Syam were walking back from a religious service...

Ram wonders whether it would be all right to smoke while praying...

Syam replies "Why don't you ask the Priest?

So Ram goes up to the Priest and ask "Priest, may I smoke when I pray?"

But the Priest says "No my son,you may not. That's utter disrespect to our religion"

Ram Goes back to his friend and said what the Priest tells him...

Syam replies I'm not surprised You asked the wrong question,let me try..

Syam goes back to the Priest and asks, "Priest may I pray while I smoke?"

Priest replies "by all means my son,by all means...God Bless you"

Moral : The reply you get only depends on the question you ask....