Plz help me i m in a very big problem

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hi frnds

my self Riya. student of ca final. attempt due in nov 2012. frnds m in a very big problem plz help me otherwise i got depressed. meri problem study se related nahi hey bt i need solution frm u my frnds bcz i cant survive widot solving this problem. in june 2011 i join a office waha pe mera ik collegue tha sunil. i never take any interest in him bt he always try ki main uski frnd ban jao. phir vo muje itni pyari and emotinal baate karne laga. na chate hue bi main uski frnd ban gae aur one he say me on phn ki he loves me. i dont give any answer at that time. he tells me all thng abt u. hum daily baat karte msg pe phn pe. aur main bi attract ho gae fr him. pir august main muje vo office chodna pada bcz vo mere ghar se bahut door tha aana jana mushkil tha bt uske bad bi hamara relation vaise hi chalta raha for merely 20 days bt uske bad vo change ho gaya na vo muje msg karta na phn. always main hi usko msg and phn karti ho. aj bi maine 2-3 bar usko phn kiya bt he dnt pick my phn bus apni marji se baat karta hey ab. maine na to usko kabi kuch kaha na hamre bich koi jagda hua bt i dnt knw k usko ab kya ho gaya plz help me ki muje ab kya karna chaiye main pad bi nahi pati due to it. i knw k usse baat karna band karke is problem ka solution nikal sakta hey bt i want to teach him  a lesson bcz usne forcely pehle muje is relation main laya when i love him to ab usko meri koi parwah nahi.

plz frnds plz help me. i want to teach him lesson and realize him his mistake. plz help me plz tell me solution and replies.

waiting reply

thanks

riya

 

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LEAVE DIS & CONCENTRATE ON UR STUDY...........THINK THAT HE WAS NOT UR GOAL..........U WANTED TO B CA.........A CA.........ITS UR PASSION.......ITS UR ANTHEM.........

& BETTER DIS FROM MY SIDE...

 

LIVE WELL & HAPPILY

IT WILL B A BEST REVENGE TO THOSE WHO HAVE HURTED U & AVOIDED U IN UR LIFE....

 

I M DAMN SURE AFTER SOME DAYS U WILL B BACK........AS U R, AS U WERE......AS U WANTED TO BE.....

 

BEST OF LUCK

Riya  your story is really hurting.....you should be positive....and please forgive him think that he was stranger in your life.....you are futurstic CA,your future is really bright ...because heated Gold Become ornament.....you can not change bad happening....but u can start new life from today.

 

please see below attach presentation it will give you lot of inspiration for your bright future...God bless you Riya...i will pray do god for your smooth life and better carrer

u ignore him too....study well....ye sab bakwas chije hai....it will hurt like hell....i know...i too a victim of thos kind of situation....someday...u will remind my words....

if u wanna really love some one.....love ur parents....they are the only one who loves u...more than anyone....meri baatein aukward jaroor lagengi...but its better to lose a frnd...instead of THE GOD....PARENTS

thanx vishal ji for the presentation...ekdum true words thay....

zindagu ko hum jase lete hai...waisa hi return milta hai...

live life simply....fir sab acha acha hoga......

thanks aryan you are really gud

firstly complete ur ca 

isme nai bat kya he ye to sab ke sath hota he larke to time pass karte hi he

jada dimag mat lagao aur usko sabak sikhane ke liye pass ho kar dikhao

bhagwan jo bhi karta h acche k liye hi karta h. us ladke ki schai tumahare samne bilkul sahi time par aa gayi. ab agar tu usko sabak sikhne ka sochogi to ye kicchad m pattar fakne wali baat hogi jiske chitte tum par bhi pad sakte h. so i think that tum usko bhul jao ca ki tayari karo ho sakta h ki ca pura karne k baad wo tumhare under m hi work k liye aa jaye to tum usko sabak bhi aaram se sikha dena.

so go for your study forget all things

best of luck.

Firstly focus on your exams .

 



Leave this all nonsense and concentrate on your studies

Commitment Commitment & Only Commitment towards CA will uplift you. Jo hon hey hokar hi rahega; jo nahi hona hey woh kabhi nahi hoga. CA is like a penance backed by sacrifices. Samjo ki dil me ek thorn tha ab thum use nikhal rahi ho. I know its not possible to repair immediately but for your peace & strengten of mind study the meaning of Bhagavadgita Seconf Chapter. U ll be certainly better & feel like revival.

Riya,

Everyone has faced / will have to face this problem once in life.

Time will heal everything. It will make you more strong.

 

As for now, you cannot do anything about it. The person knows that you like/love him and he is not bothered AND YOU CAN DO NOTHING ABOUT IT. Only thing you can do is PRAY. It helps.

 

Every other person will say "forget about him/her, concentrate on ur studies, focus, hard work, bla bla bla...etc, etc.." I know nothing works. Whatever is happening, go through it. Time will heal everything.

 

Do some meditation, breathing exercises, etc. They are very very helpful.

 

All the Best

 

BIg Problem ???? naah dis is not at all a big problem....... The thing is at dis age d prob is dat we get distracted from our real goal very easily and our mind is not mature enough to handle such situations and move on.... 

Guessing dat u r still a student and so will not be able to forget these thngs very soon... its completely ok... the only way to get over dis is to get professional in life.. develop a thinking of a professional and become practical in life... FOCUS on studies will follow once u develop a practical attitude

hey leave it now..............just focus on study......................after xam uski waat laga lena..............u r CA student think hatke yaar.......................saale ko bahut bada sabak sikhana xam k baad...................okkkk mam..

all d best for xam................apne parents ka naam leke study kr lo..............


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