How to face people now??

(Guest)

Dont think too much ..its the main cause of frustation and you dont have to answer anyone about anything .. just stay focused and relax ..you cant make everyone happy in this world. This was your first attempt but let me tell you i have seen students who were B.COM graduates and cleared PCC in 4-5 attempts. Its not a big deal.. ur just in the beginning of your career ..so keep your chin up.

I tell you a very nice dialouge from the movie patiala house where Akshay kumar says " Dekhna....ek din gaaliyon ka zor ..taaliyon ke shor me chhup jayega"

CA.ViVeK M ACA (ACCOUNTS DEPARTMENT) (28544 Points)
Replied 08 May 2011

Dear Friends

You have prepared well. But disappointed about law paper. Apart from this, you are giving some sort of pressure about how others will think about you. If you fail, you may be get insulted or how you look the face of society.

One thing you have to remember, if the goal is high, difficulties are the bye product. This is CA, so, the difficulties at exam level cannot be avoided. The parents or neighbours may be not know the difficulty level of CA. Why you have to impose a pressure on your own and mentally depressed and this pressure will only cause to fail repeatedly.

Most of the students were working hard for CA exam, some were loose the control after some exam. Better control yourselvses, think about the solution to overcome your problem and success in CA exam.

* Krishna * (CA Student) (6149 Points)
Replied 08 May 2011

See Mr. Lakshay, first of all you should know one thing. You have taken up the CA course to have your own good career life and to reach your goal. You have not taken the course for the sake of your relatives or your friends. Regarding failing, it sometimes happens, because this is CA..sometimes a little bit of luck also needed along with hardwork. Anyways, good to know that you have good level of confidence that you can clear both in Nov 2011 without wasting any delay in 2nd group attempt. In my view, no need to think about relatives/other friends till we complete CA. Its just a matter of 6 months for next attempt. Relatives/friends may think 100 things, we are not responsible for it in anyway. Suppose, if your relatives think that you are a brilliant and you will become an Astronaut and you gets job in ISRO/NASA, Will you change your career according to their thinking or will you just do your CA course? Stop thinking all these small things, our goal is to clear CA with good conceptuality. Once you complete this course, those who laughed now will come and praise you tomorrow..All the best for tomorrow exam..

CA.ViVeK M ACA (ACCOUNTS DEPARTMENT) (28544 Points)
Replied 08 May 2011

You are born to live and not to exist. Face the challenges, insult or humiliation. Once you success, then, all will come to end.

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(Guest)

dont think much of that. in the CA cource it is normal thing. just concentrate on studies

U S Sharma (glidor@gmail.com) (21056 Points)
Replied 08 May 2011

in a cricket match more than dozens teams participate in world cup, but only one is winner who carries the cup, that does not mean that other teams did not played, every tream had made practice to their possible extent, situations differ person to person,

everybody can not win always, but that does not mean that he would not win in future, keep spirits high, and ignore the critics of people around, just welcome them with smile,

the day you will achive success, you will feel the behaviour of such critics people around you, and they will compare their own kids with you.

parametres are always compared with success, however i have strong belief that despite of such critics you parents are stand with you, they may show some curves on face only not to make issues with surroundings, but with their core of heart they are with you,

Think about them, their wishes, their dreams and make yourself ready for next challange in life, just one success will wipe off all darkness of past.

History has lots of witnesses that nobody got success by birth, but they achived it after repeated number of discomfort and defeats, but they got success, coz they keep their morals and wishes above all.

Make yourself ready for next challange and belive it , that you may get a rank card with your selection, provided your efforts are honest and you feel answerable to yourself for all your mistakes in past.

Mayank Kothari (CA) (919 Points)
Replied 08 May 2011

Its not Like what your are thinking ...

Nobody is going to fyl that you are dumbo

not even your neighbour

Infact she will feel that CA is more tough

Yes now you work hard ...n Please dont study Selective....Institute can ask anything ....anything got it

It may be out of your syllabus

Best of Luck

(Guest)

Agree with vivek sir Just concentrate on ur remaning papers. Best of luck

YASH JAIN (ARTICLE) (554 Points)
Replied 08 May 2011

What R u doing to urself..............I think ur gone nuts .

At the edge of exams is this ur mental state of how u see things. FOrget all the rubbish things in ur mind and concentrate on Tax. and group 2.

U still have ages ie years and years to prove your worth...........But if this is ur thinking patter then i m sorry to say that u will never achieve desired results.........Just one law paper is gone wrong does this means ur Dump?Oh common be a brave soldier and fight the battle and dont start behaving like a coward.

World does not have time for anyone not for me not for u they are too busy in themselve....tell me wat u were doing 10 days back........do u remeber ......No na . Similary nobody remebers anything in long run. COncentrate on ur studies and dont think like a weak persong with weak will power. If not this time then wat.......next time bring a rank and shut the mouth of idiots who are critizing u. World always salutes a Rising sun........Friend be the rising sun.

SHIV KUMAR (CA FINAL) (143 Points)
Replied 09 May 2011

dear just work hard and do above your best,

the people who criticize you, just treat them like barking dogs.

ravi (unemployed) (185 Points)
Replied 09 May 2011

u r a LOOSER ,not bcos u wrote law paper badly,but bcos u r not mentally strong n thinking wat all others are thinking....a symptom of INFERIORITY COMPLEX.....if u r fren doesnt speak to u if u fail,then she is not ur fren by tru sense...so forget her..waise ladkiya bahut milte aajkal...STOP THINKING WAT OTHERS WIL TTHINK N SHIT....if u r brother is more intelligent ,then be happy for it...jus bcos u gt less marks doent mean u r dumb....thomas alwa edison failed 3000 times before inventing bulb....so TO CRACK C.A U BE A MAN NOT LIKE ADOLOSCENT KIDDO....GUD LUK AHEAD...BOTHER ABT U R DUTY NT ABT RESULT N WAT SOME DUMB HEADS THINK WHO DONT KNOW ABT C.A

Dhaval K.Toprani (CA-IPCC Student) (1150 Points)
Replied 09 May 2011

M not reading all the comments due to time constraint..but mate all I can tell you is that the moment you tell someone that yr doing CA they'll wonder how to face you..my case is pretty similar to yrs..i'm considered as bright and hardworking everywhere but this may has been my third attempt..but I really don't worry about how to face people..just be yourself..cheers and don't think over it much rather focus on the rest of the papers

Satvir Singh (Newly minted CA) (1733 Points)
Replied 09 May 2011

well, in Nov. last year, I gave Group 1 and after accounts exam, I also felt that even god can't pass me. But, I forgot it for the time being and concentrated to get 60+ in other subjects, as I knew that I won't be able to get 40 in accounts. But, when result came, i passed the group and got 46 in accounts (I attempted just 54 marks). Indeed, I passed after deadly accident, which kept me on bed for 3 months, and left me with 3 months to prepare without any coaching. So, never lose hope