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How do you manage to study in PGs - stressing out- Advise

Anu (CA) (270 Points)

13 November 2008

I m staying in PG in Laxmi Nagar (famous for CA students) .. There are around 20-30 others gal.. no gals of CA final.. few of PCC, jobbers, gals who do nothing are staying.

Its just so noisy all d time..even they are shouting at 12:30 am n in the morning after 7 am as well..singing songs, making noises etc etc .. if u ask them to stop , its useless..

kindly suggest /advise on how to fininsh out my daily study chunks .. its stressing me out really..

How do u all manage who stay in hostels/ PGs / out of home ???

thanks in advance

Anu

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Mani VGS (Teacher) (729 Points)
Replied 13 November 2008

In my opinion, it is very difficult to search a place without disturbance or any nuissance.

We should change ourselves according to the place. Nothing is permanent in this world except change.

My sincere suggestion is that, even if you eat, just love it, enjoy it and then do it. The reason is the more you involve in any work, the less the diversions or deviations you will have. In order to get involvement, you should enjoy that work. Work means it includes preparation for exam also. In order to enjoy that work, first show greater amount of interest in that work.. In order to show greater amount of interest in any work, first try to love that work. Thats all. The rest will come behind you.

Please take it as suggestion and not advice. All the best :)

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Anu (CA) (270 Points)
Replied 13 November 2008

Dear Mani V G S

I read what you have written...

r u sure that just by eloving my studies noises wont matter at all ? please suggest again...

r u sure ... ?

regards

(Guest)

There are a few options for you

1)Search for some peaceful place.Why stay in a place where you don't get what you want that place to give you.(peace)

2)If you really have to stay there then what you can do is shut the door,put on the ear plugs and sit and study as long as you want.If you are sharing the room then choose a person who if not studying herself should not disturb you.

I am surprised to know that this type of place is famous for ca students.I think you should look for a better place.Even if do not find a ca final student you will atleast have peace.

Mani VGS (Teacher) (729 Points)
Replied 13 November 2008

I will tell you some example from films/cinemas:

Kindly please take the concept / meaning from the following and leave the rest. Try to understand the logic.

In every film, there will be a hero. Hero will fall in love with heroine. Once fallen in love, hero will not sleep properly. Hero will not have hungry feeling. Hero will be the first person in that street / colony to wake up. Hero will not have any other thought other than heroine. Even if hero sleeps, in his dreams also heroine will come. Hero will not listen to anybody whatever may be the distraction. If you carefully listen all these things, the abstract is love.

I hope i dont want to extend the example more than this. Kindly replace your studies in the place of heroine and you in the place of hero. You will get the answer.

All the very best :)

(Guest)

I think there is really logic in what you say Mani.Becoming a Ca should be the main aim and nothing else should matter .Nice way of explaining .I hope Anu will surely be benifitted by your reply.

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Amresh Choudhary (M.Sc. (Maths) MBA LLB (DU)) (694 Points)
Replied 13 November 2008

first of try to get out of that damm PG, and try to find any other PG which have cool atmosphere for study, or you can search for single room on rent with your one or 2 friends...i thinks that will work for you, coz when anyone study; his/her mind always distracts by funny talks around ......Hope you got the idea!!!

(Guest)

DEAR ANU,

YOU MAY START STUDYING WHILE THEY ARE SLEEPING

S.Srinivasaraghavan (Chief Financial Officer and Co) (11318 Points)
Replied 13 November 2008

You may at best be having only starting trouble. After a couple of weeks you will get used to the environment that will make you totally immune to the noice!

Anu (CA) (270 Points)
Replied 13 November 2008

ummm... m stressed out

kckinn (CA) (759 Points)
Replied 14 November 2008

Well if you can do something about it, than do it like finding a better place.

If not than close your eyes and tell yourself about the goals you seek to achieve in your life and tha struggle needed for it.

I know its much easier said than done.

But thats life.

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(Guest)

Originally posted by :Mani V G S
"	In every film, there will be a hero. Hero will fall in love with heroine. Once fallen in love, hero will not sleep properly. Hero will not have hungry feeling. Hero will be the first person in that street / colony to wake up. Hero will not have any other thought other than heroine. Even if hero sleeps, in his dreams also heroine will come. Hero will not listen to anybody whatever may be the distraction. If you carefully listen all these things, the abstract is love.	"

great mani... what an example!!!

ITS WONDERFUL....

(Guest)

I am agree with you all but i think you must search out for hostals rather than PGs as there are better environment to study. At laxmi nagar there are various hostals for girls.

seshu.ram (clerk) (69 Points)
Replied 30 November 2008

hey anu if there is a will there vl b a way. there r many ppl who had come up in lives studying in road street lights.we are comparitively better than them na.so lets be happy with what facilities we have and proceed with a strong goal to study and complete the course.good luck anu