How do you manage to study in PGs - stressing out- Advise

 In my opinion, it is very difficult to search a place without disturbance or any nuissance.

We should change ourselves according to the place. Nothing is permanent in this world except change.

My sincere suggestion is that, even if you eat, just love it, enjoy it and then do it. The reason is the more you involve in any work, the less the diversions or deviations you will have. In order to get involvement, you should enjoy that work. Work means it includes preparation for exam also. In order to enjoy that work, first show greater amount of interest in that work.. In order to show greater amount of interest in any work, first try to love that work. Thats all. The rest will come behind you.

Please take it as suggestion and not advice.  All the best :)

Dear Mani V G S

I read what you have written...

r u sure that just by eloving my studies noises wont matter at all ? please suggest again...

r u sure ... ?

regards

There are a few options for you

1)Search for some peaceful place.Why stay in a place where you don't get what you want that place to give you.(peace)

2)If you really have to stay there then what you can do is shut the door,put on the ear plugs and sit and study as long as you want.If you are sharing the room then choose a person who if not studying herself should not disturb you.

I am surprised to know that this type of place is famous for ca students.I think you should look for a better place.Even if do not find a ca final student you will atleast have peace.

I will tell you some example from films/cinemas:

Kindly please take the concept / meaning from the following and leave the rest. Try to understand the logic.

In every film, there will be a hero. Hero will fall in love with heroine. Once fallen in love, hero will not sleep properly. Hero will not have hungry feeling. Hero will be the first person in that street / colony to wake up. Hero will not have any other thought other than heroine. Even if hero sleeps, in his dreams also heroine will come. Hero will not listen to anybody whatever may be the distraction. If you carefully listen all these things, the abstract is love.

I hope i dont want to extend the example more than this. Kindly replace your studies in the place of heroine and you in the place of hero. You will get the answer.

All the very best :)

I think there is really logic in what you say Mani.Becoming a Ca should be the main aim and nothing else should matter .Nice way of explaining .I hope Anu will surely be benifitted by your reply.

 first of try to get out of that damm PG, and try to find any other PG which have cool atmosphere for study, or you can search for single room on rent with your one or 2 friends...i thinks that will work for you, coz when anyone study; his/her mind always distracts by funny talks around ......Hope you got the idea!!! 

DEAR ANU,

1.                   YOU MAY START STUDYING WHILE THEY ARE SLEEPING

You may at best be having only starting trouble. After a couple of weeks you will get used to the environment that will make you totally immune to the noice!

ummm... m stressed out

Well if you can do something about it, than do it like finding a better place.

If not than close your eyes and tell yourself about the goals you seek to achieve in your life and tha struggle needed for it.

I know its much easier said than done.

But thats life.

great mani... what an example!!!

ITS WONDERFUL....

I am agree with you all but i think you must search out for hostals rather than PGs as there are better environment to study. At laxmi nagar there are various hostals for girls.

hey anu  if there is a will there vl b a way. there r many ppl who had come up in lives studying in road street lights.we are comparitively better than them na.so lets be happy with what facilities we have and proceed with a strong goal to study and complete the course.good luck anu

its not just about your pg,the whole of lakshmi nagar is chaotic and congested.u can switch to shakarpur(area near that noida bridge).

shakarpur is compratively 100 times peaceful nd occupied with loads of hostels.