Counting my days........

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          Hello frnds..  I’m Bhadresh from Bangalore. I read success stories which hav been Published in the CA club.

           Actually I’m very happy to know those achievement but the other side am asshamed myself  that i couldn’t.  bcoz right now I’m a 25 yr old  B.com graduate. Initially I registered myself to PE-II course after my graduation in 2005 December but I couldn’t take the exam till to last attempt. I had coaching and took my first attempt in 2010 May. The thing is I’m unable to concentrate on my studies.whenever I open the book I feel like going to die inside.

        The only reason for this is Guiltyness… I’m very much guilty about wasting of time. I wasted 5 yrs after my B.com. bcoz of this reason I didn’t do well my last May10 attempt. One more fate of ma life is, I had been working with a senior chartered accountant to Bangalore almost 3.1/2 years but i had not registered for articleship. If I did that atleast my articleship whould have been complected by this time n got eligible to write final exam Now my dream of CA postponed to 3 years bcoz I have to do 3 years articleship…

                I am coming from a middle class formar family. At the age of 3 of mine I left my parents and staying with my uncle from  past 20+ years. They treating me like their own son but you can’t share ur feeling freely with people other than your own father or mother right??

       atleast people have parents to share their feeling but for me they are there but…??? am that much fate person in this world. Each and every step of my life is pain only. I can not explain how it screwing me….

        My family have a big hope upon me but I’m in the situation that to ashamed to show my face to them, I feel like cheating them, so I constantly avoiding them. So many time I decided to end up my life but I console myself that I’m not a coward guy, I can win and I will…..

       Now I left my office to study but I couldn’t concentrate on studies. I’m laggin behind 4-5 years compare to other students. What to do now?? 

 If I pass IPCC in this  november10 attempt I will complete my CA at the age of 29 what will be the position at that age. Really  I don’t have any hope in ma life... 

          But one thing for sure I don’t wanna giveup CA. it’s my Desire....

          Looking for a single ray of fortune n hope…….

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"What the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve"

No need to worry buddy , just be honest with your preparation and do each and every work with sincerity.

That's it .

Be Happy :)

don't worry yaar.. i have seen peoples at age of 35 doing CA.. even do uncles g toh mere sath coaching le rahe hai.. remember CAs have no shelf life.. at whatever age you complete it will worth. keep rocking man. u've a good attitude towards life.. i have full sympathy with you.. keep working hard.. i'll pray for ur success.

 

gud luck

Array yaar chup chap sirf aur sirf padai kar.................tension lene se what did u gain till now. Just study study study day and night u do ur work of studying and icai will do its work naturally of passing u. ICAI gives marks on study not on the pity and emotional story (sorry to say buts tht the fact). So stop thinking like a depressed soul and just keep on studying>  Study kar ke paper de de  and icai bhi khushi khusi marks dede ga...........................best of luck.

On one of the prefaces of a Book, i saw the author take up CA at the age of 57 and complete it...with articles and all..Never be disheartened by anything in life..always believe that u can achieve and keep the faith in the lord..he shall help you, if ur true to ur word of hard work...

Originally posted by : REVATI (B.com & CA Final)

On one of the prefaces of a Book, i saw the author take up CA at the age of 57 and complete it...with articles and all..Never be disheartened by anything in life..always believe that u can achieve and keep the faith in the lord..he shall help you, if ur true to ur word of hard work...

yes he is Mr. SD Bala, a very good author of SFM book.. 

Originally posted by : REVATI (B.com & CA Final)

On one of the prefaces of a Book, i saw the author take up CA at the age of 57 and complete it...with articles and all..Never be disheartened by anything in life..always believe that u can achieve and keep the faith in the lord..he shall help you, if ur true to ur word of hard work...

yes the great man is S.D. Bala who took up the CA profession at the age of 57 after serving in a bank for more than 25 years. Usually wen we go for classes our parents help us to get up in the morning but s.d bala sir's son use to wake him in the morning and make him to go for classes . the above point does not mean that s.d bala didnt had interest in CA . he wanted to do CA from beginning but could'nt but after serving in bank he thought of Doing his passion and he did it and he is one of the perfect role models for all of us............

Age is not a big factor for ca because there is two options for ca either job or practice and there is no age limit of retirement in practice.Hence do not upset over age. If statistics are available you will find that about 50% of the students are passing ca final at around 30 and you are not alone.

Just concentrate on study and keep up self confidence for the coming years.Good days will surely come after hard days. 

Hi Happy Morning,

 

May be I am not eligible to advice u, but I read your story that’s why I wants to say something. Don’t worry for anything,  we want to achieve more in our life, with in the age of 25th  y did u feel that much.

 

Now we want to feel one think Past is past, I will understand your feeling. If u feel for your past, indirectly  you are wasting your future and also you couldn’t  get anything for your feelings………  In this world all are same only , one person differs from other because of their doings ( activities) …….. that’s all . You can also do the good think…

 

Don’t feel about your past, Do your best. All the best for your future……..

S.D. Bala is the greatest exemple for us.

Age does't  matter for CA course.

Why are u worrying so much man... You will not gain anything with it... Jab Jago tabhi savera...

Be trust in God and do work sincerely the output will be good. Advances wishes for ur successful journey.

Be happy & belive your self nothing is impossible.

 

Kannan

seems tht ur confused....personal issues,i cant comment up on...PAST IS PAST..learn from ur mistakes...age doesnt matter to bcum c.a....u said u hav worked 3.5 yrs..tht shud ease ur prep atleast in a/c or tax/ audit.....if u want to bcum c.a,jus do it..stop searching for reasons..u may find nuf ppl to show u symapthy..but ths not the sol....at the end,u need to plan n study .....REMEMBER THESE WORDS..U GET WAT U DESERVE IN UR LIFE,IN PROPORTION TO THE WORK N PAIN U TAKE...DO WAT U CAN..DONT WORRY ABT RESULTS....its ok to be a CA AT 30 RATHER THAN BEING NORMAL TILL UR DEATH.....GOOD LUK...

Originally posted by : CA Ravi sisodia


S.D. Bala is the greatest exemple for us.

Age does't  matter for CA course.


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