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CA versus wedding

29 August 2012

m writing ds bcoz i need ur support suggestion n motivation i cleared my foundation ,pe II in ver first attempt and in between i clear my mba course from scdl by scoring 75 % . I appeared ca final exam in may10 for the first tym n dn got married its my luv cum arrange marrige in nov.. n i dropd my nov attemt bcoz of my wedding n till dn m trying my level bst to clear d xams bt still not cleared my all frnds became ca.. my family ws though very supportive n proud of me bt sumwer dy feel i spoiled m career by getting married. I I get vr upset sumtimes n start blaming myself bt hw can i forget its my biggest dream to see myself as ca...wer i m lacking i dont know m trying my level bst need u guys suggestion m i wrng sumwr....

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Dheeraj (Learner) (1100 Points)
Replied 29 August 2012

First you should change your books (update the study material)

and the reasons may be devotion to family.

You should find reasons yourself and you will find answers in your question

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CA Ashish Pathak (Employed at Cipla Ltd.) (2779 Points)
Replied 29 August 2012

Hats off to you and your family for still supporting you in your career. I really appreciate that you still want to be a CA inspite of the fact that you are already a MBA and married too. I understand that you have lots of responsibilities now and its really tough to manage between something like CA Final and the Family but dont ever think of quitting. Dont under estimate yourself. you have always been good at studies and you can clear this exam too. Dont lose hope and dont ever think that you have spoiled your career and all that rubbish. All i can tell you is Just keep trying you are born to be a CA. Remember- champions are not the people who never fail but those who never quit. Keep trying. Good luck.

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CA Sanjay Bag (CHARTERED ACCOUNTANT) (3340 Points)
Replied 29 August 2012

Yes, Ashish is right. Just love your dream . But remember never get frustrated by thinking about your past, that can not be rewritten. You consider yourself lucky that you get the man you love. This is the poistive sight of your life. Now concentrate. Take new books and study hard. Everything will be fine.

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Guddi (employee) (774 Points)
Replied 29 August 2012

Don't get depressed khushi...... u should be happy for getting married to your love....don't compare your self with your friends. Believe yourself, chase your dreams, success will be yours. Forget about why and how you failed. Prepare a plan and work on it seriously.

All the Best!!!!!!!

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ramakrishnan gangadharan (sr manager) (87 Points)
Replied 29 August 2012

even if you complete a year or two after your friends it does not matter.It will even out over time.What matters

is your determination. A few people known to me have got married while doing CA and have completed..TODAY they are doing well.So do not worry.

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Devi. (student) (433 Points)
Replied 29 August 2012

"Remember, there are no mistakes, only lessons. Love yourself, trust your choices, and everything is possible." bounce up.....

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Devi. (student) (433 Points)
Replied 29 August 2012

You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterdays junk.. start u r studies fresh update u r materials up to date all the best

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Budding Professional (B.Com, CA & CS FINAL) (1686 Points)
Replied 29 August 2012

Don't let the failure deter you of your objectives. It may not be that easy to manage family responsibilities and preparing for CA Final at the same time but it is not impossible either. You must get new books so that you have the latest content to study and also you may appear in one group at a time if you feel that you are up against time constraints.

Remember that you only need revision and need to hone ur skills and concepts and you will have every chances to get through. You have a bright futute ahead, its only a matter of moving on the planned trajectory.

All the best for your preparations and future.

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gbalakrishnan (owner) (1373 Points)
Replied 29 August 2012

Not to worry kushi. You are to be cushi of your marriage after all marriage makes a person whole from time immemorial. may be your fellow mates may clear CA exam that need not make you to feel you lost. In fact every year one gets matured. So you when clear CA you may be better CA than your seniors who cleared. Hope is vital so we say tough people will last. you fall under tough persons. You can clear your exams with flying colors and kushy will be mor cushier!

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CA Roopam Sonchhatra (ca) (118 Points)
Replied 29 August 2012

thanx alot to all of u for all ur valuable suggesstions n one thing i wan to share dat i wanna thank ca clubindia for again boasting me n recharging me back...n helping me out to bring back my confidence n for all updated notes suggestion everything m glad to be a member of it..

one thing to assure u dat ill never ever give up in my lyf bcoz i dnt hav ne regreats for anythng n soon u will find me as Chartered Accountant.... n ya i wanna thank god for everything n giving me such wonderful lyf....

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CS Priti Shirke (Proprietor) (24 Points)
Replied 29 August 2012

Dear Khushi,

I would like to share my experience with u, it will definitely inspire u.

I cleared one group of CS final when I was pregnant and cleared 2 groups(6 papers) in 2008 in 1st attempt when my son was just 7 months old.

I think u shd trust urself, concentrate on ur studies. All the Best.

Rgds,

CS Priti Shirke

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CA Mauparna Ghosh (Senior Audit Assistant) (75 Points)
Replied 29 August 2012

Khushi

I got married while doing CA after clearing my second group of CA Final in second attempt. Mine was an arranged marriage though I neever felt so. My husband and in laws were extremely supportive and I feel getting married was the best thing in my life. I feel blessed to have a wonderful family. With thier support I cleared my first group of CA Final in seventh attempt. After marriage I gave exams 3 times. It was difficult but not impossible. Never give up. Do not feel down that your friends have all cleared. What matters is that you have not left the battlefield. Fight for your dream. One day you will be proud of yourself and you can set yourself as an example in front of your children and family too

All the Best

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CA Mansi Kotecha (Keep Smiling !!) (6890 Points)
Replied 29 August 2012

Hey dear....dnt get Upset !!

Keep Chasing ur dream

Le me tell u sumthng abt maself...

We all frnds joined CA 2gthr...gave cpt in August 2007...all cleared bt i couldnt cz juz few dyz b4 xm ma grandmother died..den i cleared in Nov 2007

All frnds gave PCC in May 2009..by Nov. 2009 all cleared PCC..my 1st attempt was in Nov. 2009..i failed by juz few mrks

Nw all ma frnds were in final nd I had not cleared a single grp of PCC

I was very depressed...bt I din lose hope !!

Rite nw I have cleared 1st grp of final

2dy only 1-2 of ma frnds of mine are CA...almst all are lyk me-left wid 1 grp...nd few of dem are behind me-left wid both grps !!

so I rqst u...plij dnt compare urself wid ur frnds...dey dnt have situation lyk u nd u dnt have situation lyk dem !!

Go ahead wid Confidence...U vll surely win !!

All The Best

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Kirti Arora (Company secretary CA final Student) (75 Points)
Replied 29 August 2012

Khushi ji first of all I appreciate you for ur efforts you are putting in your study..May be I am not so senior to give you suggestion. The same situation is here with me but little bit differ. You did marry with your love but i didnt.

You need to put focus on your study with new books becoz CA demand updation, smartness, passion which you have lot. Dont blame yourself that you did marriage if you indulge in blaming yourself that u did mistake of marriage then you cant concentrate on your study. Your family is also supporting so dont worry

I am a Comapny Secretary and pursuing for CA Final. I also lost everything for being a CA. you should be happy that you are with the one whom you love and who loves you very much.

My best wishes with you. carry on.

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