@ Renu:  u know wat u have written my biography ................... xactly my story ............ only two things haunts me now : CA and Marraige ................ there is huge pressure of these two things on my head . m sure many other ca aspirants girl going thru da same .........  and the worst part is wen ur parents support u fully  and ur relatives keeps nagging  and they keep giving their wasteful advices like" KITNA PADHAOGE ? CA ME KOI FUTURE NAHI!!!!!!  LADKE DEKH RAHE HO YA NAHI YA ISE BUDDHI KAR KE SHAADI KAROGE ???? MAIN BATAU EK LADKA ? etc etc etc " and thew orst thing i heard from one of my relative is " ye CA nahi kar rahi ye toh time pass kar rahi hai , itna time thodi na lagta hia ca me and guess wat that relative of mine is " ANGOOTHA CHAAP" ...............    want to write a lot !!!!!!! very much angry i m ryt now ....... ur story made me went thru all things i suffered after stepping into CA world ................. Phhheeewwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hello, what a lovely article u have written.

when i was preparing for my P.E.-1 xams...there were many people who said me why are you doing C.A. its not for girls..u have to get married..will your family (in laws) allow u to work after marriage. i f they don't then its a waste.....i was being told this by many ladies some from my family, some from people whom i knew..when I cleared my pe-1...few of those same ladies told me that even they had taken CA as a carrer but had to leave it bcoz their parents wont allow them to do job.......................

Today i am waiting for my final CA results..& belive all those people who discouraged me are looking at me with pride....& also respecting my career........

So just bcoz some people tell you d reasons like after marriage will ur in laws allow u.......than dont leave your career..instead just think....Future is uncertain , & knowledge is something, which no one can take away from you.instead it will always help you in your life some way or the other...

Once again very very thanx for one who brought this topic uppp.............

 u know wat a girls parent nvr discriminates between agirl and a boy and they want to support the girl in her studies .......... problem tab aati hai jab ye relatives picche se brainwash karne lagte hai . and they scare them to hell and  parents start worryng abt the girl marraige and then the times come ..wen their focus shifts to finding a groom !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  y the hell ppl worry abt others ..... why dat false chinta .my question is : jin logo ko hamari shaadi ki chinta hoti hai .will they going to help wid finance and all required in marraige ..... answer is : NO............. they wont .... real thing is : unhe khujli hoti hai dusro ke maamle me taang adaane ki !!!!!!!!!!!!!  wen a boy pursues CA , HE is allowed to live in PG , GET married wen he wants , but in our case hame CA yA SHaadi me se ek cheez ko opt karne ke liye majboor kiya jaata hia ...wen we opt CA , toh we suffer bad relation wid our relatives and due to mental pressure , wid our own parents ... ........!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

YES REALLY AN CAPTIVATING ONE .. BUT I THINK SITUATION HAS CHANGED .. GIRLS HAVE BECOME MUCH SMATER.. ANY WAY SUCH A  GREATLY EXPRESSED ARTICLE ON A GREAT ISSUE.. HATS OFF..

This article is highlighting exactly what I am going through.......... I feel as if i have written my feelings in my own words. Sach me renu tumne mere dil ki baat keh di. Such a heart touching and true article :)........

Presently there is lot of pressure on my parents from my relatives for my marriage but my parents are very understanding in this regard. 

I am also eldest amongst my siblings and feel i owe lot to my parents and i am not less than a boy to them so wants to take upon their responsibility even after my marriage which can be accomplished only when i am qualified. So just wants to achieve my goal rather than thinking about marriage which i am sure would follow once i am a qualified person.

hiiiiiiii renu dear...

very very nice article wid reality of a gal's life...

absolutely agree wid each nd every word of beautiful article..

thanxs 4 opening d eyes of everyone..and 4 d motivation.

keep writing...

bye bye..

superb dear a very nice article,

u deserve a hat"s off

very nice article...................a reminder to the society.............

Thnks renu ....... very imp article for girls......:-)

Yes, you are correct in many aspects.

Nice message, every parent should read and every daughter should know this.

real story

Great Article   I Agree      

Hi, Renu 

Nice Article written by you, with the great effort  on such senstive point.   you are emotionally working hard for this article.  I appreciate you.

This article I was take print outs and show my wife to motivate her for Higher Education

I agree with you thought and effort to wake up to the society's thinking and to change their mindness.

This is a common thing with every girl.....whose belongs to a middle class family...

I have realize that every girl have situation like this...we are commenly discuss this.. 

But at the end conclusion dose not so fare ever...

because a girl firsly Think about there parents and then for herself....

 THUMPS UP FOR SHARING THIS...:)KEEP SHARING..

very true incdent happening to a lot of gals................in today" s world.....