The transformation will take place only wen each and every person holds responsible by giving LOVE & COMPASSION as a return of HATRED , JEALOUSY & VENGENCE. The heart must flower by enjoying each and every creation of life and be grateful and preserve the same.
The very basic concept is to accept things as it is...for eg if a person is unjustly blaming or scolding us ...then i wud just accept the words as it is instead of feeling hurt or waiting for my turn.
Weeping or feeling hurt will lead to inner conflict which as a consequence make us joyless.
How many of u agree with me ?