Why me? The question we ask ourselves quite often when we are in distress. What have I done to bear all this?
Yes, I used to ask this too, especially when you miss your target by few marks. Especially when you know that you have put your heart out and worked very hard for something. You may have hell lot of knowledge, but only a piece of paper defines it. This is a truth, bear with it.
We often feel down and out in life, very rarely does anyone understand our plight. Trust me, this is the time to prove yourselves. If it had been easy then everyone would have done it. Its not, that's why you have been destined to do it.
Relax, take a time out after failures, introspect, talk to people who actually care for you like your Parents, siblings or best friend. Believe it or not, we all know how to overcome your fears and failures but we want to hear it from others to confirm our beliefs. This is all because we lack confidence.
Bring yourself back, it's not over till you quit. The fight is on. Be a warrior, take this challenge and work hard. Results will come sooner or later. But you if give up then you are sure to fail. Just don't give up, no matter what, no matter where you are, things can change.
I often see people talking about others that he or she was lucky, but what they don't talk about are the efforts that person put in to be lucky. He or she didn't give up.
You have come this far because there is something in you, so don't doubt yourself, You till now have fought failures because you want to succeed, so why do you worry about your abilities. Have faith, believe in yourself and just for it with more vigor.
This time will pass and you will remember all your struggles once you succeed. Have this faith and continue working hard.
Don't take this failure so seriously because you aim is much bigger than it. Just learn from it and move forward. There should be no shame in admitting that you have failed till you are working hard and can stand against the adversities, Let people say whatever they want to, you can only change it by your efforts.
So, JUST DON'T GIVE UP. It's hard to beat a person who never gives up.
JUST GO FOR IT.
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