What would you do if you were in my position?

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Okay this'll be weird; but please take your time to read this.

 

So around 1 year back (July, 2012), I met a guy online. And I can say he's the most amazing person I've ever met. The most awesome thing about him is his honesty and politeness. No matter what I ask or how irritating my questions may be, he's always very polite and very honest in his answers. He's also the smartest person I've ever met. Whatever he says makes lots of sense. He never talks non-sense. Well I knew that no one in this world is perfect; but he's one of those rare people who is pretty close to being "perfect". He's truly a gentleman. In other words, I can say he's my role model.

 

However around 2 months back, i.e., in July 1st week (2013), there was a small fight between us, and ya I was the one who was at fault. And he was alleging me something which I denied. The conversation went on for over an hour. I've said everything that I could possibly say. But unfortunately I couldn't convince him. Ya he won the arguement. But the most cruel thing was he then blocked me. This is what he said in his last reply.

 

"Either way I am done with you. Please refrain from contacting me again."

(And blocked)

 

And after he blocked me, I was like this for the next few days.

 

 

 

 

 

Okay, may be I exaggerated a little. But the point is, I was pretty upset. It just blew my mind. Anyways, what I want to you is that, even though he blocked me, I can still contact him through my other account, which is currently deactivated (I used to use another account earlier; but due to some reason I had to deactivate it and create a new one). I actually didn't want to disturb him again since he told me to not contact him again. But he's too important of a person to loose. And even on that last day when he spoke to me, he was not like shouting at me. He was trying to explain me very politely. So I'm thinking of contacting him again and requesting to forgive me for one last time.

 

What do you say? Shall I contact him again?

If yes, what message would you send him if you were in my position?

 

Thanks in anticipation!

 

Replies (13)

I might have ignore him for sure...

Originally posted by : Ganeshbabu K

I might have ignore him for sure...

 

But here the thing is, you did a mistake. You're at fault and that's why he blocked you. Ya I know, friends should excuse you if did a mistake. But may be I did a very big mistake, and that's why he couldn't excuse me at that time. But it's been nearly 2 months since then and they say, time heals everything. So that's why I'm thinking about contacting him again.......

contact his other friends tell them u agreed that it was u r fault now u r sorry

i think it will solve u r prb

Originally posted by : manoj

contact his other friends tell them u agreed that it was u r fault now u r sorry

i think it will solve u r prb

But unfortunately, I don't know any of his friends.

dear u r saying u met him online check his other online frds

Originally posted by : manoj

dear u r saying u met him online check his other online frds

Ya I can find his other friends. But but I don't know them. I never spoke to anyone of them. Had there been any common friend, I would have taken his help. But there ain't one. And I'm sure he won't like it if involve a third person in this........

than now made a common frd and talk with him

if he is really true frd he will forgive u

Originally posted by : manoj

than now made a common frd and talk with him

if he is really true frd he will forgive u

But I said he won't like it if involve a third person in this. I've to contact him directly. 

than as u r saying u r in frdship with him from more than a year than u might have his no. call him directly

and say sorry

Originally posted by : manoj

than as u r saying u r in frdship with him from more than a year than u might have his no. call him directly

and say sorry

Ya we've been friends for nearly a year. But I don't have his phone number. He's from New York. We used to talk only over facebook. 

Den third party intervention is necessary talk any one of his frds and say sorry

First you complete your CA and then during your free time you can contact him.  You have not mentioned some of the conversations between you and him but definetely something wrong has been done by you which resulted in your getting blocked by him. Why you are so attached to him is also not known.  Generally it happens when you are defeated in some love with any girl but this is not the right time to spend your valuable time when you are studying such an important course.  So try your time to be spend in your studies.

Originally posted by : C A S.S.Agarwal, M.Com.,LL.B,

First you complete your CA and then during your free time you can contact him.  You have not mentioned some of the conversations between you and him but definetely something wrong has been done by you which resulted in your getting blocked by him. Why you are so attached to him is also not known.  Generally it happens when you are defeated in some love with any girl but this is not the right time to spend your valuable time when you are studying such an important course.  So try your time to be spend in your studies.

Why you are so attached to him is also not known???

Sir, I've said he's my role model. Then obviously I would like to become his friend again. 

 

Anyways, as you've said, I'll be contacting him only after I'm done with my exams. And no, I'm not defeated in anything of that sort; I want to friend him again because he's amazing (I'm not homo BTW :D)


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