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Aditi (Student) (58 Points)

13 February 2011

Hi, m getting married this May so i won't be able to give my May attempt this time for my PCC 2nd group...i passed my 1st group...i was planning that i would give my attempt in nov2011..

but i just keep thinking if i would be able to study after marriage...i don't want to discontinue my studies after coming so far.....my in laws are with me in this matter but this is now...i don't have any idea how m going to study after marriage with this new environment...

and how do you handle the people around you...your relatives, friends and your husband ... when you don't pass in exams?

pls some one give me some advise and hope here?

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Gaurav (ca student) (748 Points)
Replied 13 February 2011

is it not possible that marriage get postponed till exam. as if u get pass then u ll be in final and then u ll have enough time to adjust ur self in new enviornment and for final.

just talk to ur in laws & ur husband.

hope all 'll be well

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Robin (AUDITOR) (854 Points)
Replied 13 February 2011

HAPPY MARRIED LIFE :-)

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Siddharth (Get Digital Signature Certificates (DSC) in 30 minutes! Click on send PM!) (672 Points)
Replied 13 February 2011

Just teach yourself, you want to do this and you have to do this... You don't handle people around you, you handle yourself.. As said by Mahatma Gandi, "Be the change you want to see in the world".

Doesn't matter what people say, if they say you can do it, but you are least interested, you can't do it.. And in case, if they say you can't do it, but you wanna prove 'em wrong, and have the willingness to do the hardship, you will do it. So it's you, your thinking and your doing.

You'll of course have more responsibilities and roles to play, but if you don't want to leave at this juncture, you gotta manage time.. As this is a correspondence course, I don't think your in-laws should have any problem.. Just manage atleast 2-3 hours every day for studies..

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CA.Sandeep Goyal (Practice) (49 Points)
Replied 16 February 2011

It is totally depend upon your life partner.if ur understanding with ur life partner is good than noting is impossible.but that is true ki after marrige more responsibility upon u,and u should manage many things.

But if ur husband is with than everything is possible

My best wishes is with u for your future.

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CA Madhukiran Reddy (CHARTERED ACCOUNTANT) (12714 Points)
Replied 21 February 2011

Originally posted by : Gaurav Khanna
	is it not possible that marriage get postponed till exam. as if u get pass then u ll be in final and then u ll have enough time to adjust ur self in new enviornment and for final. just talk to ur in laws & ur husband. hope all 'll be well

Yes this idea is better

Try this

All the best for your future

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Gaurav (ca student) (748 Points)
Replied 21 February 2011

thanx kiran..

Sandeep Surana (Practicing Chartered Accountant) (156 Points)
Replied 22 February 2011

I want to share a story of my freind Rajendra,

I think is hepful for your dicision making

When my friend doing preparation of May,2010 PCC exam, his family is pressurised for marrige.

Becoz of he also want to become CA before marrige, then he confused ki "what whould be do"

Therefor my friend & me discuss and planned for talk to his In-laws. After that he Talk with his In-laws and represent from his "SITUATION, PROBLEMS & FUTURE and after discussion he get a really greatful result, his marrige is postpond for 2Yrs. and at present he is student of CA-Final and i trust he passed CA Final exam in May 2011 attemt "

If no solution get rather than marrige than i am agree with "MOHIT"

"BUT IF UR HUSBAND IS WITH U THAN EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE"

Best wishes is with you

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well... nothing is tough as long as you have faith in your abilities.. so try your best and clear the exams... you can prove yourself..no matter what come in your way.. you are ready to face challenges of life :)

and about handling relative or people...then dont worry... its like joining a new company ... with new environment and people around you...you may feel little nervous but very soon you mix with them and everything is normal... life is like that ... so dont be scared .... just relax and never lose your confidence...

even i had friend and she got married during her exams..but she scored very good... you know its all about you postive thinking and handling situations ...

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