Parants vs lover..

1)you lie to your parents for your
lover,but why
not to you lover for you
parents?
2)to marry your lover you
leave your parents,but why don't you
leave ur lover for
your parents?
3)you ask you lover whether
he/she
has taken lunch on time...but have
you ever asked the same question
to your
parents?
4)you leave all your bad
habits for 1 promise to your lover,but why
not after the
repeated advice of dada
dad?.......................