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need help, plz frnds

shikha goel (student) (364 Points)

30 December 2010

helow frnds

i want ur help

i m very unsatisfy from my life.

u know what, m apni life se itna presan ho gye hu ki kabhi kabhi maan krta h ki sab kuch chod chad kr himalya pr chali jau, ya ek andhere kamre me band hokr whi rhu humesha

kuch bhi krne ka koi maan nhi kr rha, hr waqt gussa aata h or kisi pr b uttar jata h or phir rona aa jata h

m kuch bhi smajh nhi pa rhi hu or na hi kr pa rhi hu

padhai me b maan nhi lagta h or na hi frnds ke sath masti me

kal new year h or aaj itne msg or invitation aa rhe h

pr such me kuch bhi krne ka maan hi nhi krta

ab to frnds khne lge h ki shikha tu ab pagal ho gye h ya boring ho gye h

plz mujhe kuch aisa btae jisse m apna dhyan kisi kam me lga sku or apne mind ko santi de sku

plz plz plz help me

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Vikas Gupta (CHARTERED ACCOUNTANT) (16295 Points)
Replied 30 December 2010

Do Yoga.. I think By doing that u can able to concentrate..

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CMA. CS. Sanjay Gupta ("PROUD TO BE AN INDIAN") (114220 Points)
Replied 30 December 2010

Get back to old days. Just remember your old good days when you were a kid having fun with your parent, your friends, in school at home. Just remember those days and become a bachha once again. Play with small kids, do something childis. Bring out the child hidden in you. We all have a small child in us whenever we become tensed just change the role around. This will really help you.

Wish you a very happy new year full of fun and lots of smiles.....

CS LLB Pulkit Gupta (https://www.facebook.com/pages/Life-and-Promises/553962034682487) (16631 Points)
Replied 31 December 2010

Very well said by Sanjay Sir. Har kisi ki lyf mein ye phase aata hai. Aap apni family aur frnds. ke saath time spend karein...

shikha goel (student) (364 Points)
Replied 31 December 2010

thanks to all

(Guest)

Dear Shikha

I am agree with Sanjay Sir

Aapne meri post par comments likha, mujhe woh line yaad hai

If it happened, it was meant to, don’t stress about it (that’s why it is called the past).

Yesterday needed to be in order for today to come.

Live for today and rejoice yesterday because tomorrow awaits.

You are judged by how you treat others...

Have a Good Day........Take Care

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CA DHIRAJ SHRIVASTAV (article) (44 Points)
Replied 31 December 2010

first of all u have to think that wht is ur aim?, where do u want to b in future? n when u r 100% dedicated to ur aim thn i thnk nothing can disturb u.

life is the name of difficulties so u have to make it joyous nd all ppl r hard working for some aim bt if u observe very carefully they all r working to eliminate difficulties frm thr lives,

difficulties r life a mobile network whrever u will go it will follow u

so think it as a part of ur life n u can eliminate all such difficulties by ur dedication.

that's all dear

all the best for future

n happy new yr

shikha goel (student) (364 Points)
Replied 31 December 2010

aap sab sahi kah rhe h pr m apni taraf se apna best deneki kosis krti hu or deti bhi hu

pr phir b aisa kuch jrur ho jata h jo meri smajh se bilkul bahar hota h'

kai bar lagta hai ki ye sab meri galti ha to kai bar lagta hai ki galti koi or kre or bhugtu m

or ya phir ye kah lo ki mera luck acha nhi h ya meri expectation hi bhut jyada hai

Prakash (Professional) (211 Points)
Replied 31 December 2010

Really very interesting symptoms!!!

Happens in two circumstances.

1. When you get or already have all what you want.

2. When you get nothing what you desire most.

In both the cases you only can help yourself. Do invest some time for what ever you like, may be a hobby. (If you say you dont know your hobby then it is the biggest problem any human mind has faced evre!)

It is more probable that anyone would not agree with my opinion....!

ONE PARAGRAPH THAT EXPLAINS LIFE!

Arthur Ashe, the legendary Wimbledon player was dying of AIDS which he
got due to infected blood he received during a heart surgery in 1983.
From world over, he received letters from his fans, one of which
conveyed:
"Why does GOD have to select you for such a bad disease"?
To this Arthur Ashe replied:
"All over the world 50 million children start playing tennis, 5 million
learn to play tennis, 500,000 learn professional tennis, 50,000 come to
the circuit, 5000 reach the grand slam, 50 reach Wimbledon, 4 to semi
final, 2 to the finals, when I was holding a cup I never asked GOD 'Why
me?'.
And today in pain I should not be asking GOD 'Why me?' "

"Happiness keeps you Sweet,
Trials keep you Strong,
Sorrow keeps you Human,
Failure keeps you humble and Success keeps you glowing, but only Faith &
Attitude Keeps you going...

Vikash Maheshwari (learner) (6358 Points)
Replied 01 January 2011

by ur words,i can easily make out tht u r in depression..........and to b very frank,it's not bad.....we all get depressed in life........but the real challenge is how fast u come out of it.......we all can give u advice but then it's u urself who has to self evaluate why do u feel so.............sit ,close ur eyes and realize wats wrong,wat can u do to rectify it...........there r 100 s of methods but nothing works if u want an instant cure..it takes tym...........in d mean while i suggest u to watch tv,read some novels,may b chetan bhagat's...u will love thm ,watch movie............detach ur self frm d world 4 sum tym.................hopefully u come out of ur depression b4 it turns into sumthing worse..............