m i over reacting?

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Aditi

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58 Points Posted on 11 February 2011

Hi, i didn't get clear my 2nd group this nov10, this was my 3rd attempt n m getting married on May 6..so i won't be able to give my attempted this May.

and when i told my would be husband about this he didn't say anything at that time...but now he keeps telling me that he will teach me how to study costing when we get married cuz i don't know how to do it myself & says that C.A seems to be an easy job cus anyone can get admission...i know he may be kidding with me...but still it hurts..

he is an engineer n i don't know what to say to him, i can't explain to him...

i keep getting frustrated and depressed when he says that, and it gets affects my studies....i feel like a loser when i compare with his career...i know there is no comparision between the 2 careers but still....

tell me what to do? i am over reacting due to my failure...

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Siddharth

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672 Points Posted on 11 February 2011

Consider that as an inspiration, something to prove to him. In CA, of course anyone can take admission, but anyone can't be a CA.. With the number of engineering colleges popping up, anyone can be an Engineer though, probably there are more Engineers than CAs.. LOL... don't say this to your future hubby, however if you might, say it in light mood, in a sense of humour, make sure he doesn't take it to his heart... ;)

Engineering in a sense is easier, with semester system where people can go to next semester still having uncleared paper/ subjects in backlogs, in CA you have to clear all papers to go to higher levels. When someone joins an engineering college he has more probability of getting the degree than a CA student getting the qualification, unless otherwise he gets misdirected (drugs, alcohol, other bad activities, etc.)

In life take everything with a pinch of salt, don't get depressed when one criticises you, also do not get carried away when one appreciates you.

sukhpreet

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67 Points Posted on 11 February 2011

just check-out this link .....i hope it will help u ....

/forum/for-all-those-who-are-ready-to-quit-have-have-look-here-once-127727.asp

its normal to react in that time.......but more important to come out from tht frustation ....nd CA is top course in all over world as compared to any other professional course ....u will be proud for joining such a great course ...

thts right there will be more difficulties as compared to other ......but i know u can deal with it and one day become a CA ...

dnt worry one of my frd also cleared its 2nd group in 4th attempt ...nd now he is ready for final year ...(have patient and confident in ourself.....)

and dnt forget to smile nd if possible tell me when u will be CA or cleared ur group .....