life is a burden for me ..urgent help

See Devansh..same situation of me too before..i lack confidence..even till now i don't feel free to talk with my relatives  because that i didn't achieve anything in life till now...but at that moment i felt that..no one is judging me ..because my life i need to do myself no one will be with us all the time..so do what u like all the time..and at that time i felt very happy that..i am very free to talk to all..even my relatives ask me how are ur studies i simply say...thewy are going fine..if they say how long u take to clear..then i simply smile..and say..i am trying to build up knowledge and gain experiencs

So u don't think about others who tease u..and leave all ur phobia..be happy all the time..u have write to laugh all the time..if u feel like they will laugh at u..remember laughing club who laughs without any reason..somany people laugh at them..but the people who laughs at them don't know what is the medeicine of laugh..so u go out enjoy like a butterfly..feel the fragnance of the environment..be free..keep relaxed ur mind..keepng bad thoughts in the mind make u disturbed so..do any work..

none will judge u..u r responsible to ur parents not the people who tease u..so i hope u will get rid of al the things..

All the best..

well freind its not a big deal ....

first start preparation for ippc .... its just ur first attempt .... u need not to  worry .

please dont compare with others.....y because the conditons under which u brought up and others  are entirely different ...

u said ur lacking communication skills thats the big hurdule every one facing in these days .... u need proper guidence for that .... 

about talking with girls .... nothing will happen if u dont talk  with girls ..... 

about eye contact it can be corrected by u only ........

never bother about others laughing at u ...... its a general thing of society .....

about fashion ... in our profession fashion doest play any role but passion plays major role ....

my freind u will definitely overcome all these ... when u get success in ippc if u ask how ?

right! this is my conclusion .. once u pass ippc

1. ur confience levels will boost u dont bother abt others

2.talking with girls ... also set ...when  u joined in article definetely once u got office exposure defintely ur communication eye contact evry thing goes good ....

so to get all these ..... u need a tablet (ippc preparation).... start from today

success will hug u ... good day

regards

teja.n

Well explained by Sasanka Bhalaki jee......!!!!!!!!!

 

--------------------:::::::::::::::::::::::::::I would like to say one thing that:::::::::::::::::::::::---------------------

Always ignore all those things which makes you unhappy and always try to remember all thing which makes you Happy............

Kabhi bhi ye mat gana ki..........

Aina ke sao tukre karke hamne dekhe hai Yek main bhi tanha tha Sao main bhi Akele Hai.....

We all at CCI are Friends and a Family .........

 

 

Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit.

 

It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about.

i will tell u just go 2 hell ....yup i m seriously tellin u .....wat nonsense is this dude....tis is not rite...wat more confidence do u want.....just look at ur parents man...y do uwant 2 live 4 oders cant u live 4 ur parents....cos i can bet tat ur parents r livin 4 u only....personality is not wich u show 2 oders it is wat is inside....live for ur parents man....tu hero banne ki koshish nahi kar raha he but ur r just trying 2 improve urself....braces...dese r not problem man....have u not seen the series of ugly betty....she goes on to become the boss of the entire company....she doesnt look nice cos she has braces....ur problem is totally useless man....i belive tat u shud stop thinking of oders n achieve things in lyf for ur parents only dont u know the saying MATA PITA GURU DEV....wat does it say man ur parents r first even greater than god...does this saying include ur neighbours, ur peers etc...certainly not...live 4 ur parents ....live 4 ur self....n u know tat u r born in this world 2 make ur special some1 happy......best wishes....

Hey its not problem yaar. . . Even i m also facing the same problem but not much. And Also one of my friend was faced the same problem 3 year before but now he was the leader of a well known university. Everything will changes with times. . . . . . Best of luck for your smart future. . . . . JIYO TASHAN ME.

1.Avoid soaking negative energy

 

2. Avoid thinking too much

 

3. Share a laugh with people and not your tensions

 

4.Personality doesnt come from looks or fashion , it comes from your attitude. 

 

5. Be the best of you so that people enjoy being with you and it doesnt mean you have to be very cool in nature or very good in english etc. Being the best is to kicking off the negative toughts from yourself and others mind as well, not only you yourself but others too would like share your company  if you have a positive nature.

 

6. Happiness can be acheived only from your work or making others happy. This line seems boring but its damn  true.

 

7. And dont ever think life is going to give you Roses everytime, o common this is not a disney world where you are happy always.. from a small kid to an old person , everyone faces challenges and they have to fight and acheive . Fear is the most damaging personality of a human being. If anything is letting down then no prolbem just be brave enough to move ahead instead of sitting their and crying for a miracle to change everything in your life. 

 

8. Finaly i would say ... "grow up" .. there are people who have faced extreme difficulty from a very young age.. and difficulty doesnt means just the POVERTY .. its everything in a day to day life... like facing people, handling difficult situations , accepting critiszm , being brave to face challenges and learing them, fighting against the odds of life, handling different kind of PHOBIAS etc.

 

Dear friend,

May I tell you a fact which you don't know ?

"I am extremely shy" these are your words. Are you really shy?

NO. You are not shy!

An extremely shy person can't create a wonderful write up like this.

My hearty congratulations to you.............

OK, let's see what make you to tell the above words?

Now you are keeping yourself away from others.

Why?

You feel that you are inferior in certain counts! Right?

Dear friend, take it from me that NO human being in this universe is perfect in all counts.

If I am good looking, I may not be intellectually good.

If A is good in sports , he need not be good in academics.

Take the case of any individual, including your role models and heros ; NOBODY can be perdfect in every aspects of them and their life.

The most worshipped man in India, Sachin Tendulkar is also lacking in some aspects.

So, look at the plus points of you and thank god for blessing you in that way.

You are sure that you won't pass in your May attempt. At the same time you are sure that you will crack both groups in Nov 2011.

Let me tell from my whole experience, an inferior breed can't show that much courage and confidence in one's own ability at this juncture ie, immediately after a bad exam experience.

Only a few people can stay like this. If you say that u r inferior, I won't agree with u.

You are saying that, you can't face people!

Who are these people?

They believe that what they are thinking is right. They believe that there is only one way to success.

You take it from me, my friend if I believe so, I will be the IDIOT No.I

For knowing the perfectly Right path we need to be open to all options and we shoud understand that there are many ways to success.

If the people surrounding you don't understand that fact, that is their fault and not yours.

The one who commits mistake need to pay penalty, and NOT you.

Here, you are paying penalty for somebody else's mistake. Yes friend, you are sacrificing your social life. It is very precious. Do enjoy it! Be part of the society. If others don't know how to behave in a civilised society, let them learn the elementary lessons of social life.

Please understand, being a CA is not the sole objective of life.

CA IS NOT LIFE, IT IS FOR YOUR LIFE.

Take the case of all successful persons in our society. Our society laugh on them and demoralise them , when they choose a different way to success. But when those persons achieve success, the very same society claim them and their success.

Everyone of us face the same situation in one or the other field. Be confident and courageous to reach your target.

So you are not inferior but you are superior to most of the people laghing on u.

You referred the look and appearance of people?

Did you ever heard of any employer recruiting a finance professional based on his look and appearance?

No, friend what matters is the stuff.

We respect our statesmen and national leaders based on their quality and not because of their beauty.

About dressing, we need not be fashionable in our dresing but we should be professional in our dressing.

Dear friend Our nation is not limited to our cities. If we travel across all the states in this country, we can see a number of diverse cultue and dressing patterns in this gifted land. You can't find a town in India which doesn't have a CA office. Do you think that all the people in those CA offices are wearing modern outfits. No dear, in this land of poor people there are a lot of people do not have food, shelter and education. So ignore it...................

Life's meaning and worth is not decided by our outfit's brand and value.

Understand one more thing, Never think that every second of your life should be success. You must expect failure also. That is the beauty of this life.

May I tell you one more thing? Never allow others to define YOUR SUCCESS AND ITS YARDSTICK.

Decide it yourself.

Never allow others to decide your life.

If you are shying away from social life because of other's comments ; your life pattern is NOT decided by you. It is decided by the man who is laughing at you.

Never allow that to happen.

Believe that you are perfectly alright.

We are with you.

Start preparing for Nov.2011 exam and enjoy your life. Keep on making friends.

GOODLUCK!