Dear friend,
May I tell you a fact which you don't know ?
"I am extremely shy" these are your words. Are you really shy?
NO. You are not shy!
An extremely shy person can't create a wonderful write up like this.
My hearty congratulations to you.............
OK, let's see what make you to tell the above words?
Now you are keeping yourself away from others.
Why?
You feel that you are inferior in certain counts! Right?
Dear friend, take it from me that NO human being in this universe is perfect in all counts.
If I am good looking, I may not be intellectually good.
If A is good in sports , he need not be good in academics.
Take the case of any individual, including your role models and heros ; NOBODY can be perdfect in every aspects of them and their life.
The most worshipped man in India, Sachin Tendulkar is also lacking in some aspects.
So, look at the plus points of you and thank god for blessing you in that way.
You are sure that you won't pass in your May attempt. At the same time you are sure that you will crack both groups in Nov 2011.
Let me tell from my whole experience, an inferior breed can't show that much courage and confidence in one's own ability at this juncture ie, immediately after a bad exam experience.
Only a few people can stay like this. If you say that u r inferior, I won't agree with u.
You are saying that, you can't face people!
Who are these people?
They believe that what they are thinking is right. They believe that there is only one way to success.
You take it from me, my friend if I believe so, I will be the IDIOT No.I
For knowing the perfectly Right path we need to be open to all options and we shoud understand that there are many ways to success.
If the people surrounding you don't understand that fact, that is their fault and not yours.
The one who commits mistake need to pay penalty, and NOT you.
Here, you are paying penalty for somebody else's mistake. Yes friend, you are sacrificing your social life. It is very precious. Do enjoy it! Be part of the society. If others don't know how to behave in a civilised society, let them learn the elementary lessons of social life.
Please understand, being a CA is not the sole objective of life.
CA IS NOT LIFE, IT IS FOR YOUR LIFE.
Take the case of all successful persons in our society. Our society laugh on them and demoralise them , when they choose a different way to success. But when those persons achieve success, the very same society claim them and their success.
Everyone of us face the same situation in one or the other field. Be confident and courageous to reach your target.
So you are not inferior but you are superior to most of the people laghing on u.
You referred the look and appearance of people?
Did you ever heard of any employer recruiting a finance professional based on his look and appearance?
No, friend what matters is the stuff.
We respect our statesmen and national leaders based on their quality and not because of their beauty.
About dressing, we need not be fashionable in our dresing but we should be professional in our dressing.
Dear friend Our nation is not limited to our cities. If we travel across all the states in this country, we can see a number of diverse cultue and dressing patterns in this gifted land. You can't find a town in India which doesn't have a CA office. Do you think that all the people in those CA offices are wearing modern outfits. No dear, in this land of poor people there are a lot of people do not have food, shelter and education. So ignore it...................
Life's meaning and worth is not decided by our outfit's brand and value.
Understand one more thing, Never think that every second of your life should be success. You must expect failure also. That is the beauty of this life.
May I tell you one more thing? Never allow others to define YOUR SUCCESS AND ITS YARDSTICK.
Decide it yourself.
Never allow others to decide your life.
If you are shying away from social life because of other's comments ; your life pattern is NOT decided by you. It is decided by the man who is laughing at you.
Never allow that to happen.
Believe that you are perfectly alright.
We are with you.
Start preparing for Nov.2011 exam and enjoy your life. Keep on making friends.
GOODLUCK!
actually i dont laugh or smile outside my house becoz i have braces
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