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Is the life finished

SkDash (CS (Member) CWA (Final)) (909 Points)

17 June 2011

Is death the only solution to problem ?

I was a bright student since my childhood with no bad habits, great love to my parents, most sincere among family .....and on my way of so many stones, i travelled a lot and got success in prof career, but now in the mid between my loving mom and loving wife. I dont want to leave anybody but living together is almost impossible. What i am thinking now is to let them live in earth and me in hell. Hell may be by starting drinking / smoking and spoiling the physics or may be committing suicide. Is it the right solution to the problem ?

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CS Ankur Srivastava (Company Secretary & Compliance Officer) (17853 Points)
Replied 17 June 2011

IN any of the case NO.

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No you dont have rights to do like that... You have responsibility. Do that

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Monica Srivastava (CA) (180 Points)
Replied 17 June 2011

Life is so Precious & we don't have right to end it,Be Relax & u have support of ur loved ones,ur family that is much more important than anything else,Wherever u live they will b with u,so dont think of these stupid things.......

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mounika (semi qualified chartered accountant) (981 Points)
Replied 17 June 2011

ITS VERY TO HEAR SUCH WORDS FROM U BROTHER. AS U DECIDED TO DIE I CAN UNDERSTAND HOW MUCH PAIN U R HOLDING. PAIN IS NOT AT ALL IMPORTANT BUT THE PERSON IS VERY IMPORTANT. BE COOL AND RELAXED. ALLOE TIME TO PASS ON . IT BRINGS ALOT OF CHANGES AND FIXES U A VERY SWEET EXPERIENCES BEFORE U . SO PLZ DONT THINK ABOUT COMMITING SUICIDE. BE STRONG. EVERYTHING THINK LL BE OK. I LL PRAY FOR U

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shweta (student) (39 Points)
Replied 17 June 2011

hey i want u to think this n den decide whatever u want "aaj tum unke bich rehkar unki problems ko sun sakte ho solve karne ki koshish kar sakte ho right lekin ye socho agar tum unke beech na raho lekin tum kahin se delh sako ki unka kya ho raha hai tumhare bina den my dear friend u will have no option n will feel helpless n even feel ki kash main unke saath hota " lekin.......................agar is lekin ko face kar sako to its u r wish

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shweta (student) (39 Points)
Replied 17 June 2011

and starting drinking n smoking is not the solution its running away from problems . both the above mentioned person r u family members .do talk to them n tell them what u feel . you will get your solution . dont spoil your life . itna hardwork karke yahan tak pahunche ho so enjoy u r life . dont be so much frustrated...

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pavankumarcma (B.Com ICWAI (CA FINAL) SAP Consultant) (147 Points)
Replied 17 June 2011

Hai Santosh, Why don't you ask your wife to do CA ......Life will be cool infact.

Because your wife has to put some efforts for clearing CA, by seeing her there is achance that your mother will change.

Hope your life will be happy.

Life is beautiful man .....Think differently.

SOURAV GHOSH (Assistant Manager-Finance) (401 Points)
Replied 17 June 2011

Originally posted by : mounika
	BE STRONG. EVERYTHING THINK LL BE OK. I LL PRAY FOR U

Suicide is absolutely NOT a solution to be considered. DON'T DO IT ... it is not fair to yourself, and it is certainly not fair to those who love you.

Tushar (Service) (107 Points)
Replied 17 June 2011

No man, this will never be good solution. Life is precious and you got a lot from evevryone. You can not ruin your life without doing something for them. First you need to understand what's issue. Patch up things with communication. There is always solution to every problem. Also do your own analysis, r u too emotional and small issues are making you disturb.

First try to speak with your wife and mother about their expectations with each other. Also make them realise how is important for you to live together and happily. Let make them aware how it is impacting to your personal and professional life. Explain them imporatance of family value.

If staying together is not possilbe, look out best option like... buy a flat very close or adjacent to your house so that you can give time to both.

But in any condition, sucide or ruining your life is not solution. Before taking any actions, just thing about your mother. Who will look her after you?