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I need help

20 December 2020

I am 30 and clueless about my future.

I left CA in 2013 and struggle with depression.

Ab mujhe samajh aata hai ke pehle mujhe kuch samajh nahi aata tha.

Currently i have a choice to join my father's business or complete my ca finals but i am clueless about its prospects.

Shaadi ki umr bhi ho gayi hai.

kya karu.
Jo isse read kar raha hai I request him her to guide me.

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Syed Suleman uddin (Student) (79 Points)
Replied 20 December 2020

Dear hitesh,

my suggestion to you is to join your father's business and take it to next level .

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JATINDER KUMAR (Accountant) (3662 Points)
Replied 20 December 2020

Dear Hitesh,

Don't worry

Tum akele nahi ho bahut saare ke sath ye problem aati hai ki kya karu, kyonki pressure bahut jayeda hota hai

As per my suggestion

Firstly, you need to set clear goal in your mind - What should I do ?

If still confuse, you can join your father's business and go ahead

Deepak Gupta (CA Student) (15922 Points)
Replied 20 December 2020

Marriage can be postponed for 2/3 years. Even if you marry now with this frame of mind, it's not going to help you in the relation.

First of all you need some peace of mind and calmness inside you to deal with the situations. Start practicing pranayam along with some stretching and other exercises. Maintain a sleep pattern and eat good food. By good i mean, less of fried and packaged stuff.

Join your family business but keep the working hours similar to your articleship period and study in morning/evening and weekends/holidays. Do discuss this system with your parents or elders so that there is no confusion later on.

This way your frustration or suffocation will be less which may happen if you just sit at home and study and study.

Initially it may look difficult but keep doing it on a daily basis to get into a flow and rhythm.

Don't rush to give the exams at the earliest. First decide how much time you need to prepare thoroughly for the exams. According to it, select the exam term. Best wishes.

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ayusmita (Tax consultant) (5885 Points)
Replied 20 December 2020

There's a beautiful saying
no one can discover you until you do
you have to find your self what you want to do unless and until that you will find depression or say get frustrated any time of your life even if you start your business with your father or even if you start your CA final
and to find your self you need calmness inside you to think proper way what exactly you want to do in your life and where's to start and go head and how
and for that you have to found your soul and it will be exctalty done the way Deepak Gupta ji said
meditation and Pranayam and right time n right hrs sleeping are most include it in your habits
believe me it's really helps you alot
it's helps me too when I lost my mom next year and lost myself some where's and clueless as I never imagined my life without her
it's effect my joblife too
it's just that all goes in same phase with different situations in their life and it's just that how you manage your self and comes out
and bhai shadhi to tu abhi 2 ya 3 yrs ta bhul ja
first become responsible then take responsibility
otherwise other wise everything will be imbalanced

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