Radhe Radhe
Ganeshbabu K
(Audit and Tax Advisory)
(48564 Points)
Replied 05 February 2013
HOW TO DEAL WITH FAILURE?
Successful people are differentiated from the normal people not by the amount of success of achieved, but by the way how they converted their failures into success. Many people don’t know how to overcome failure.
They start saying: It was very difficult, I had no luck, I don’t have time, and It must be done etc
1.They always look for excuses.
2.They blame the situations and persons.
3.They always see the problems–not the solution
4.They say:Why is it happening to me? – Without seeing the opportunity presented to them.
5.They will be frustrated by the situation seem helpless; give up and live an unsatisfactory life without achieving what they want.
Managing Failure:
Develop New Strategy
Failure is a part of every one’s life. Everyone fails at one time or the other. I should say, there is probably more to learn from the failure than from success. At times failures give you the start which was required by you to achieve your goals. So treat them as learning experiences and use these experiences to develop new strategies to achieve your objective in a more effective way.
Maintain Positive Attitude
The choice of attitude will decide your life. Negative thoughts have no strength until you feed them. By having negative attitude you will create you own hurdles in your life. Every one encounters problems. But the ability to solve their problems lies on their attitude towards them.
When it rains all the birds fly for shelter.
But eagle alone avoids the rain by flying above the cloud.
Problem is common to all but Attitude is different.
Never lose attitude even in the worst of times,because it will ultimately help you in your journey towards Success.
Never Give Up
When encountered with failure many people will give up; as they don’t know what to do. If you hold on to that rope a little longer success may be yours. These obstacles will always help you to strengthen your character. So, “NEVER EVER GIVE UP”.
Stay Motivated
Motivation is the best thing that is helpful to you to achieve your goals, and finally to live a satisfactory life. Without motivation we may be constantly depressed and will be low on confidence.
So try to find the things which motivate you and always sting on to them.
Famous people who succeeded despite failure
Mahatma Gandhi
Gandhiji is an average student who passed his matriculation exam with difficulty. After completing law, he failed at establishing his practice and he did a part-time job as a school teacher.
Albert Einstein
Albert Einstein didn’t speak till he is four and didn’t read until he is seven.His parents thought that he is sub-normal. His teacher said that he is mentally slow. He was expelled from school and failed in the entrance exam to the Polytechnic Institute. But he turned out to win a Nobel Prize.
Thomas Alva Edison
He failed nearly 10,000 times before inventing the Light Bulb. When he was asked “How did it feel to fail 10,000 times”. He replied that “I didn’t fail. I found 10,000 ways which won’t work. Every failure is another step forward”.
Amitabh Bachchan
Before entering the film industry, he applied for an announcer’s job with All India Radio. But was rejected as his voice was deemed not suitable.
JK Rowling
The author of Harry Potter wrote her first book Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone on an old type writer after she got separated from her husband. It was rejected by 12 publishers. But after one year, Barry Cunningham from Bloomsbury accepted it with the advice to take a job because there was no money in Children’s Books.
Karoly Takacs
He is a Hungarian Shooter who lost is shooting arm in an explosion. He didn’t give up. He taught himself to shoot with his left hand and went onto win two consecutive Olympic Gold Medals.
Walt Disney
He was the man who gave us the Mickey, and the beautiful Disneyland. But he was fired by a newspaper saying that he lacked imagination. He went bankrupt several times before he built Disney World.
Michael Jordan
He is a former professional Basketball player, was cut from his High School Basketball team. He once quoted
“I’ve failed over and over again in my life. That is why I succeeded.”
Other Famous Failures who succeeded
Abraham Lincoln, Socrates, the Beatles, Richard Branson, Henry Ford, Charlie Chaplin, Van Beethoven, Helen Keller, Marilyn Monroe and so on.
They all have one thing in common Rising from the Failure.
Remember:
Opportunity often comes in disguised in the form of misfortune or temporary defeat-Napoleon Hill
So, always make sure that you are there to let it in.
Only those who dare to fail greatly can achieve greatly-Robert F. Kennedy
Our greatest gory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall-Confucius
Little minds are tamed and subdued by misfortune;but great minds rise above them-Washington Irving
Quitters don’t Win, Winners don’t Quit.
Think positive, act positive and achieve positive results.
Failure comes before success even in the dictionary.
Success won’t come without failure.Failure is always part of success.It’s reality.If you take steps to improve yourself everyday you will achieve success in no time.
Hope this article will help you to achieve success.
CA Aspirant
(Student)
(90 Points)
Replied 05 February 2013
Dear Kanhaiya.....
I can understand ur situation,As to what phase ur going thorugh.
Pls first Accept the fact , that ur failure may be due to a insufficient preparations for Exam....I was astonished to see ur posts from past 3 days,
,As ur excitement going on to look at the results...But dear keep up the spirit..U will do the Best...
Because My Teachers say that - "Those who fail several times,are the only one who have thorough knowledge of the Subject..."
But i am damn Sure that u will knock of the Result Card in May 2013 With Excellent Result...
Regards,
CA Aspirant
Kanhaiya
(Nangia & Co.)
(1981 Points)
Replied 05 February 2013
i am quiting,,,
bye CA is not meant for me
Radhe Radhe
PrinceAnil
(ca)
(51 Points)
Replied 05 February 2013
me 2 failed in g -2 but what can we do nothing i did my job well some thing went wrong dont be letting down ur self jus start ur preparation from now onwards their is almost 90days to spare so dnt worry accounting 20-30 is enough auditing and sm&It another 40 days is enough so we can study very peacefully wish u best of Luck
Vikas
(Article)
(21 Points)
Replied 06 February 2013
ROO MAT BHAI. MERA BHI GRP-2 SECOND ATTEMPT THA, NAHI NIKLA. KOI GAL NAHI YAAR. NEXT TIME SAATH ME NIKAL LENEGE.
BOLO RADHE RADHE
Lokesh Modi
(Student)
(28 Points)
Replied 06 February 2013
Hey dont worry and take positive. Never give up. You will definitely succeed. Take as a challenging and proceed in a positive manner. You will and you can. You will pass.
CA Tripurari Kumar Thakur
(Accounts Excutives)
(144 Points)
Replied 06 February 2013
please dear if u wana prefix CA before your name the plz dont talk like that..u will surely pass in may 2013.
CA Raghav Swaminathan
(B.com, CA )
(48 Points)
Replied 06 February 2013
I passed my CA inter in 3rd attempt and Final in 5th Attempt..
"You don get wat u lyk. But you get wat u deserve"
Work hard. Results wil be taken care of automatically..
Kanhaiya
(Nangia & Co.)
(1981 Points)
Replied 06 February 2013
Maine really bahut hardwork kiya, but ptani ni kya hua
such mai papers ache se diye, sab kuch point to point likha
bus i don't know what happened
Thanks to every CCI member who helped me and thanks my parents , principal and everyone.
but decided and understand that i am a failure and can't do anything
Radhe Radhe