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I am in deep tension..pls help me??

lakshay (ipcc) (581 Points)

15 March 2011

I have my ipcc in may 2011.....u guys wud be wondering ki then i am doing here.i shud be studying ...bt i am facing a huge problemm....

i am a guy who is nt so confident(persoanlity wise)..till cpt too i was very shy i had very less friends..bt now because of ipcc i dont go out..i dont talk to my friends either(becoz i dont want to get distracted) i have become extremly shy ..i dont have any confidence in me now..i cant face people.i cant make eye contact with them..i wonder what has happened to me ...my persoanlity has become worse....i only go out for 5-10 min just to walk bt dont talk to anyone except my mom n dad...i feel like crying ..my friends have started to think that i have become arrogant. when i sit to study i start thinking that i m good for nothing ..u niethr can pass ipcc nor make any friends..i wannt to cry..this period i think is going very very tough for me ..pls help me guys ..i cud have posted this topic in yahoo answers..bt i thought u guys can help me in a better way

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Ayyswariya RG (Knowledge Seeker) (3711 Points)
Replied 15 March 2011

Hi, the time will change you and make you speak.. Whenever u meet a new person, try to start a conversation with them. Slowly you will start speaking with people and that wont be a problem for you.

Start speaking with your friends, then relatives and neighbours and so on... You will be perfectly alright. And Talking with friends wont distract you. First bring in Confidence in you and then start studying , this is very much important to face the exams as well as people..

Now just cool down, u no need to worry or feel distracted for that. Always think and act like " yes, i am capable, strong. I can face the situations, I am bold enough etc" ... when you think this way and live, you will start following it. It really works!!

Concentrate on studies now. When you meet your friends or people you know, just start speaking something. Speak with people boldly ( eye to eye contact) which helps you to build in self- confidence,

ALL THE VERY BEST FOR YOUR EXAMS

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BALASUBRAMANYA B N (CCI STUDENT....) (44679 Points)
Replied 15 March 2011

Bro you have answer in your questoon itsef, your not confident that thing you need to change and should make too confident..Be+ always and always should be confident to do anything.. when you make yourself down than you can achieve r can reach your destiiny, you have dreams for that you need to work hard and concentrate on studies to get this top 2 words of the world which changes your career to bright and it will take top positions and its "CA". For getting this 2 words people did workhard and they clear by giving so many attempts, now they r in top positions. You should make your mind and change your attitude if you want to make same way..

Read this..

From disability to ability

Here are two women who have proved that physical disability is no obstacle if one has the ugre to overcome their handicap for achieving golry. Anjali Aurora and Neha Bansali are the two women who have made themselves role models with their self-confidence and determination and set an example to thousands of women. Both these women had spent their childhood singing, playing and dancing like any girl of their age. But their lives did not proceed evenly for them. Anjali grew blind. Neha Bansali who confirmed to the wheel chair when she hurt her spine. Yet they out-grew their disabilities. Anjali Aurora became the assistant manager in Air-force Authority. Neha Bansali is a successful Chartered Accountant. These two women who perform their duties with assistance from a companion stand as an ideal to the society. The Ability Foundation of Chennai presented them with National Awards. Their experiences in their words.

Neha Bansali:

I was born in Delhi and grew up there. I belong to a middle class family. I have a gounger brother and a younger sister. When I was playing with my friends my spine received a minor injury. But because of infection the entire spine got affected. As a result I could not sit up and got confined to the wheel chair. Except my right hand I could not move any part of my body. I had to depend on others to attend to the daily ablutions. I wanted to commit suicide. The support given by my father and mother, my sister and brother kept me up, I took the +2 exam. I scored 92% in the exams. This achievement gave me confidence and encouragement. I took the chartered accountant’s final exam and stood tenth in the national ranking. This success made me live and I grew up from then on.

I, who was confined always to the wheel chair with ability to move only one hand, developed a great urge to achieve something notable. I could secure a job as a chartered accountant in a firm and became the chief accountant. I co-ordinated the duties of 300 exployees and solved the problems of our clients all over the country. Though disabled and faced many problems, I could overcome problems with self-confidence. I want to convey to other physically challenged persons that though it is inevitable to seek help form others, if only we can mould our lives as a model to be followed by others. It gives us great strength. If any one of you need any help in the chartered accountancy course you can visit me in neha.bansal 29 @ rediffmail. Com.

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BALASUBRAMANYA B N (CCI STUDENT....) (44679 Points)
Replied 15 March 2011

Read this articles...

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Suresh Singh Rajput (Accounts) (176 Points)
Replied 15 March 2011

Understand self, lead spiritual life, dats solution,

actually wat ur feeling, experiencing lonliness, is main requisite for learning or studying in professional exams, be silent, interact limit.

CA DILAWAR (CA) (92 Points)
Replied 15 March 2011

dont tension without any think, go to work hard and then result in your fevour.

brother.... keep smiling always..........

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Amisha (Asst. Company Secretary) (205 Points)
Replied 15 March 2011

Dear Rohit

Red ur feelings.. and wud like to add some lines here..

What u r is not sooo uncommon.. and I think everyone in their life at some phase do face this problem.. the difference is only that u face this problem everytime..

I wud really like to advise u very differently.. here I go.

1st thing : stay connected to GOD.. - he is the solution to every problem.

2nd thing : talk to GOD whenever u feel like talking to someone. Take any pic of God may be Durga Maa or Hanumanji or Ganpati Bappa or Shivji or Shri Sai or any other just stare at the pic and tell GOD what u feel, what u want, what u like & what u don’t about others about urself and any secret.

3^rd thing : always share each & everything with GOD (pic). Even if u fell like crying cry in front of the pic. Even if u r happy for some reason do share the reason with that pic.

I think this is enough for now to get a start with new change. The other reason to stop is that u may not found this useful for u.

Anyways if in case any suggestions for me pls feel free.

Thanks to everyone who read this article

Thanks & Regards,

Krishna (Article Assistant) (294 Points)
Replied 15 March 2011

its simple dude... life in a broad perspective is bigger than CA or any exams... do out and make friends.. go to classes CA or some music classes.. talk to people... they will come talk to u too.. only way to beat ur shyness is get rid of by talking to people.. if CA is what u feel holding you back , i advice u to put it on hold.. there are more important things in life . but personally i feel IPCC reading aint urr problem.. u have to just change ur perspective about making friends.. people are as open to u as open u are too them .. try to get noticed :) good luck :)

Gourav Kapoor (CA Final Student) (2977 Points)
Replied 15 March 2011

Have a read at my article...i wish it cud help u...Do Your Best

(Guest)

PLZ. DONT TAKE TENSSION, IT NORMALLY HAPPENS WITH CA STUDENTS. JUST WORK HARD

BEST OF LUCK

Santosh Ramaseshan (CA, CS ) (110 Points)
Replied 15 March 2011

Hi,

Dont think too much about wat others think of you, everything will be ok once the exams r over, just think u r normal everything around u will be normal

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Manjul Soni. (CA Student.) (1407 Points)
Replied 15 March 2011

Rohit Brother

just think that - Problem Encourages People To grow, if u think that u are shy then it is the time to Remove that And Be A Person Which u want ............

Just Dont Regret over the Present Position and believe that the Present Position Will be Changed When U Change Your Thinking....

Be Hopefull and Try to Remove that Which U think it would not be....

Best Of Luck Friend......

Srividya Venugopalan (Chartered Accountant) (40 Points)
Replied 15 March 2011

Hieee

Just chill dont think too much. Never underestimate yourself. When ever you are low just imagine your life will take a beautiful turn. Just imagine how good you'll feel to call yourself a final student at the age of 19. Avoid negative thoughts and even people who are demotivating and negative. This is just a passing phase. Do deep breathing for 2- 5 mins it would help you reduce your tension. Go for it crack your exams and you would come out with flying colours. Have faith in yourself. Never underestimate yourself. Never think about anything else while studying. Try and concentrate. Then you'll realize that sky is the limit. Aaal izzzz well. Go for it and crack your exams. All the very best. takecare

CA. Raj Bolmal (PRACTICING CHARTERED ACCOUNTANT) (197 Points)
Replied 15 March 2011

Dude chilax......... Ur really thinking a lot....... U got one shot at life........ Dont waste it thinking abt such things..........

Laugh out loud, smile often, talk to pple wit grt enthusiasm....... Make frds........ Jus chilax yaar......

Devika (CA & PGDBA(F)) (182 Points)
Replied 15 March 2011

Hey Rohit..wnever u feel down..thnk abt the GOD u believe in..Evrythng wud b gud dear..Darr k aage hi jeet h..so b brave..believe in urself..!!

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