I always think of bad things.........help

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hiiii friends......i am an ipcc student...today i am going to tell about my problem which i think many people would say disgusting..but what could i do..becoz i know that no one can help me other thn caclub..



actually i am 19 years old.bcom 1st year....i have never had a girl friend or any love affair in my life..now i dont know what has happened to me...i think of s** and girls and alll...i want to make a girl friend , want to love her...i always day dream about these things

my majority of friends are doing bcom from delhi university which is just awesome..all of my friends have girl friendsss...frankly speaking i sometimes feel jealous and frustrated and feel of just leaving ca and just have fun by having a girl friend...

please help me friends..i know that with gf its very tough to do ca..how can i keep my mind empty with these bad things while i am doing studies......help..

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Friend dont be jelsous on ur friends first read well.

 



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Think only and only about your CA studies and your family. think about your carrer.  Think about your parents who waiting for your success.

Originally posted by : CA Ravi sisodia

Think only and only about your CA studies and your family. think about your carrer.  Think about your parents who waiting for your success.

Hi Archit,

I am a CS. While doing CS, some of my frnds were doing MBA, computer course, etc. Specially my best friend was doing MBA from Delhi. She used to tell me about her luxurious life with all enjoyments. I too wanted to have that life but not at the cost of my career. I concentrated on my studies only.



I knew what I want and whats my goal.

Now when i m a CS, I look on my other friends, someone is still searching for job, someone is underemployed, some has to join his father business.



The proud n contentment of a good n status job n profession is much higher than the pain of loosing all those days wen you can have fun with friends.







Regarding girlfriend, you can have one after completing the studies. 'Making girfrnd n having FUN' doesnot create your good impression. Make a girlfriend and be with her for the lifetime. And you can do that after completing your CA.

And one more thing, doing CA/CS does not mean that you turn your face from all the enjoyments. Go to movie, go for shopping and all that you want to do but studies are important. It depends upon your time management.



Its not like that all CAs n CSs are only professional. All of us have personal life too and we have right to spend that time the way we want.



You are 19 and old enough to understand. you have two options,



Enjoy now and pay later 

Pay now and enjoy later 

but watever u do later will take half of your life.

I am a girl and i could do easy course and enjoy because I need not to run my family. But still I opted tough option. You are a boy, you have more responsibilities and your parents expect a lot from you. 

Its upon you which way to choose...









See Mohan its the age for you even for sucess or for failure.

I can sure damn that if you have a girl friend then you cant afford CA at this age especially as you have already in thinking of bad things.... So dont think at all of that.

 

You , urself saying that it is a bad thing... then you can answer yourself yar , generally we opt bad things... noooooooo.... right..? then dont opt bad things always we opt good things..

 

Think only one thing my friend whenever you get that idea just shut your roaming activities with your friends and bandh TV , dont sit infront of net especially and switch off your mobile and open your books, i am sure at that time you cant concentrate at all on  your books so just go and sit with  your parents.....( you will come to easily if you sit with parents that you are doing wrong and what hopes and responsibilities they have on you and just chit chat with them, then you will realise what you are missing that valuable parents love instead of making fun with girl friend, try to make your parents happy with your humour or playing bla bla , i can say for sure yar  you will come to know what you are missing then)

 

And place two options, decide yourself first - whether fun is important to  you or CA?

If you chosen fun then leave CA boss, if you opt CA then leave fun thats it....

 

It's all about controlling ur mind. Trust me it is difficult, but possible.Priorities matter.. 


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