How to handle a typical love relation along with CA

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how to handle a typical love relation in which there is soo much love that it will go till end but because of some problms we are facing most critical face of our relation due to which our career is getting spoiled .. we both have exams of ca final in may 17 .. we cant help ... our schedule breaks .. u never know its been 4 hrs wasted or a whole day wasted .. we both are very much capable to pass both groups in a single attempt if we dint had issues .. thtats the reason we are scared in shifting to single group .. we daily think of a better tomorrow but it never lasts for more than some hrs or maximum a single day .. we lost love we will loose career too .. nothing much to live .. god is not with us ... we are damn serious for each other thats why get hurt soo much and our career is on backseat
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I honestly believe that you must refrain from all distractions and focus only on the approaching exams. I know it is easily said than done but Shraddha you must seriously think about your career which is in your hands and ask youself as to whether you are giving due importance and priority to it.

 

Don't loose hope. Have faith on yourself. Its a test of your emotional maturity. If possible, try to take help of a FRIENDLY 3rd PERSON. It helps a lot in sorting out issues b/w 2 partners as u get an unbiased view. Best of Luck!

Whenever you guys are having any issues, make this a rule, "No fights over phone, meet, shout out, fight, and sort things out, but nothing over call". I think it should work for you, worked for a friend of mine.

Sometimes complicated probles have very simple solutions - My Opinion is :

1. Do not talk over call/message/facebook etc.,  upto 17th May 2017 5.00 PM, or/and

2. Delete his contact/whatsapp contact upto 17th May 2017 5:00 PM. or/and

3. Refrain from doing anything that might remind you of him.

That's it. If you stop conversing, eventually you'll stop thinking.

 

Tricky Part: After 2-3 days you'll feel like you are thinking even more about him as compared to, when you normally coversed. And your mind/heart might fool you that, you'll tend to stop overthinking after talking. But trust me, if you do that, the chain never ends. Key is SELF CONTROL.. And that too till only 17th May 2017. It probably has almost arrived in Japan.

My suggestion is different. You should have conversations with him but more likely related to studies like ask questions to him and in this way you can have him with you and that too without
Thinking about the issues with your love life.
Quoting a statement from Lady Gaga statement..
"some women choose to follow men, some women choose to follow their dream
Quoting a statement from Lady Gaga statement.. 
"some women choose to follow men, some women choose to follow their dream. If you are wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it does not love you anymore.. 

Run behind your career, love will follow eventually.. 
Hello Evry1.. Thanks for your support .. we both cleared both groups in may 2017 and now working in big 4 .. Happy with each other .. Thanks a lot for your moral support .. I will always remember that
Respecting his or her time space !


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