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R (16 Points)

10 May 2007

friends i m in a great problem i caught with jealousy and depression as i am notable to complete my course in time i should have become ca by novmber 2005 but couldnt make it. please guide me i am in great depression all my colleagues are CA now.

I want to end up my life due to this depression.
please help
rahul kothari

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Late CA Sampat Jain (Chartered Accountant) (4772 Points)
Replied 10 May 2007

There was a man who lost heavily in business at 20,defeated in a legislative race at 22,failed again in business at 24,overcame the death of his wife at 26, a nervous breakdown at 27, lost a senatorial race at 34, lost his chance to be the vice president at 47, but became the PRESIDENT of US at 52,this is the life history of ABRAHAM LINCOLN.Could we call his life as a life of failures?FAILURES ARE STEPPING STONES TO SUCCESS.

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Vinay (37 Points)
Replied 10 May 2007

hi brother don't give up, just give it your best u can give.good luck.

Virendra Patni (13 Points)
Replied 10 May 2007

rahul i think u should goahead i m also planning the same thimg. I should have become CA by nov2005(I m from old scheme)but due to passing pe2 late it will be completed in may 2007. For our type people their is no place in todays competition
You are right it is very difficult to lead a depressed life.

123neetu (61 Points)
Replied 10 May 2007

I finished my articles in 2003. i was supposed to qualify long ago. had lots of personal problems...i cleared inter after 8 attempts. don't give up. quitting is easier...stay.. be determined and driven and fight...because if u give up...only you will lose.

Abhishek Bhura (13 Points)
Replied 10 May 2007

friend you are right virendra and rahul i also plan to do the same thing i am fed up of these faliures from nov 2003 i have given 6 exams out of which i faced 4 faliures. I think i will not get any thing out of it. I am fully depresses and want to end up life rahul you should go aheadwe people dont have any place in todays competition

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Rahul Sharma (13 Points)
Replied 10 May 2007

hello friends this is rahul sharma i m also facing the same problem even after failing 3 attempts in ca final i have attempted a suicide but here also i got failed

Rahul (202 Points)
Replied 10 May 2007

RAHUL KOTHARI PANKAJ BHURA VIRENDRA PATNI GO AND END UP YOUR LIFE AS A MOUSE HAS VERY SHORT LIFE.
GO AND DIE DONT THINK ABOUT YOUR MOTHER FATHER AND YOUR WHOLE FAMILY AND LEAVE THEM IN A LIFE LONG DEPRESSION AND MISERY BUT U GUYS PLEASE DONT CARE FOR YOUR PARENTS.
ALL OF YOU ARE SELFISH PERSONS
IDIOTS

123neetu (61 Points)
Replied 10 May 2007

I agree with Rahul...its easy to run away...like a mouse....there are ppl (including myself...read my previous reply) who have failed many times than u have and have come out successfully...if u want to let something bring you down...it will. instead be strong... study harder...attend classes...watch out for presentation...exams require planning, not just studying...SO STOP THIS RIDICULOUR CHARADE OF IM-GONNA-KILL-MYSLEF! work hard towards the next exam..there are sooo many ppl to help u out here on this site. so be strong and fight like a man.

Rahul (202 Points)
Replied 10 May 2007

dear guest all these persons are bloddy mouse they have no right to live.
Cowards has no right to live
YE SARE DHARTI PAR BHOJ HAI
JO APNE PARENTS KE BARE MEIN BHI NAHIN SOCHTE

Well Wisher (13 Points)
Replied 10 May 2007

Dear Rahul,
Already these people are depressed and by being so rude you ill only take them into further depression. Can you be a bit more polite..PLEASE.
Anyway there is no point in ending your life dear friends... You have to think about your parents... In case you just dont make a CA degree it does not mean the end of life.
Get a Job first.....change your life cycle change your social cycle.... Take a break from studies... YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE HAPPY IN LIFE. You have not comitted a murder or theft you have just failed.... No problem at all....
Bill Gates was in India recently he said that he hires people who have tasted failure in life.... I presonally feel failure is imporant in life... I am a CA dropout... I am now working in a MNC a job which I got just a few days ago... I have tried to end my life but failed... I believe it was the biggest blunder of my life... I must surely be quite old compared to you people.. I guess you people must be in your early 20s...
Yes life is hard.. Please live it... Bercause one day after all this pains you will be happy about yourself when you will be successful... YES YOU WILL BE SUCCESSFUL.
When I used to fail I was criticised by relatives... pricking me indirectly with words and eyes... but no its not failure....
I am still a B.com but I will not quit my education I am taking a break.... I will pursue some other professional Qualification along with my work...
Please I BEG YOU DONT END YOUR LIVES ITS VERY VALUABLE.
I HAVE REALISED THAT BY SUICIDE YOU DONT KILL YOURSELF YOU KILL AN ENTIRE GENERATION... YOU KILL YOUR LEGACY. Nothing has happened ...
Yes I agree B.com degree has no value but still continue with life....
In case you are scared of failure (which is very likely) then get a job ..study for some degree .. CS for example... Dont register for the course... Without registration study calmly .. Dont think about the past .. When you feel confident register for the course and write the exams ... With so much time one will be able to pass this exam..
I AM NOT A CAREER COUNSELLOR.. ITS NOT NECESSARY YOU ALL HAVE TO FOLLOW MY SUGGESTIONS BUT MY SOLE AIM IS TO HELP YOU TO LIVE..
I HAVE NEVER SEEN YOU.... I MIGHT NEVER SEE YOU ...BUT I STILL CARE FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ...I CARE FOR YOUR PARENTS... IF I A NOBODY TO YOU CAN CARE FOR YOUR FAMILY WHY CANT YOU CVARE FOR THEM .... THEY HAVE LEAD THEIR LIVES FOR YOU ... YOU ALSO HAVE A DUTY TOWARDS THEM...DISCHARGE YOUR DUTIES ...YOU ARE NOT BORN TO DIE SO SOON.... PLEASE WAIT FOR NATURAL DEATH... DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE...
THANKS FOR READING SO LONG...
( A BIG FAILURE IN LIFE WHO WILL MAKE IT BIG ONE DAY)

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Rahul (202 Points)
Replied 10 May 2007

Dear well wisher can't these people fight with the life take example of amitabh bachan had he end up his life no he fights and survive and rest ios trhe history
Dear virendra rahul abhishek whats so ever you it is upon your discretion but my suggestion is that u should thionk about your parents first. My dear friend has committed suicide and you know police has exploited his family for one year.
Friends please life is not so bad as you are thinking
I apologise for my way of talking bit i got angry with the msg odf rahul kothari