CA Suraj Lakhotia (IndigoLearn) (4898 Points)
21 February 2013Have you got into the habit of holding onto things - thinking that it would be required in future?
How much baggage are you carrying - both physically and mentally?
Life is short...Celebrate it....Nothing is permanent...
Go through the presentation below ...Hope it helps in transforming your perspective
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CA Suraj Lakhotia
(IndigoLearn)
(4898 Points)
Replied 21 February 2013
CA Prashant Gupta
(DGM (F & A))
(14068 Points)
Replied 21 February 2013
really good
carrying the lot of pressure is not good
from today I am droping the weights from me :)
CA Suraj Lakhotia
(IndigoLearn)
(4898 Points)
Replied 21 February 2013
Thanks CA Prashant, Even i was moved a lot after reading the article.
CA Suraj Lakhotia
(IndigoLearn)
(4898 Points)
Replied 12 March 2013
On a certain occasion, during an elegant welcoming reception for the new Director of Marketing of an important London company, some of the wives of the other directors, who wanted to get acquainted with the new spouse, asked her with some hesitation:
Does your spouse make you happy, truly happy?
The husband, who at the moment was not at her side, but was sufficiently near to hear the question, paid attention to the conversation, sitting up slightly, feeling secure, even filling his chest lightly in pride, knowing that his spouse would answer affirmatively, since she had always been there for him during their marriage.
Nevertheless, to both his and the others’ surprise, she replied simply
“No, no he doesn’t make me happy.”
The room became uncomfortably silent, as if everyone were listening to the spouse’s response.
The husband was petrified. He couldn’t believe what his wife was saying, especially at such an important occasion for him.
To the amazement of her husband and of everyone, she simply placed enigmatically on her head an elegant black silk scarf and continued:
“No, he doesn’t make me happy …I AM HAPPY.”
The fact that I am happy or not, doesn’t depend on him, but on me.
“I am the only person upon which my happiness depends.
I make the choice to be happy in each situation and in each moment of my life.
If my happiness were to depend on other people, on other things or circumstances on the face of this earth, I would be in serious trouble!
“Everything that exists in this life changes continually: humans, wealth, my body, the climate, pleasures, etc.
I could enumerate an infinite list…
“Over my life I have learned a couple of things: I decide to be happy and the rest is a matter of "experiences or circumstances;”
- …It’s not the responsibility of my spouse to make me happy...
He also has his “experiences or circumstances.” I love him and he loves me, often in spite of his circumstances and of mine.
“He changes, I change, the environment changes, everything changes;
Having forgiveness and true love, and observing these changes, that can be, big or little, but always happen, we must face them with the love that exists in each one of us.
If the two of us love and forgive each other, the changes will only be “experiences or circumstances” that enrich us and give us strength. Otherwise we would only be “living together.”
There are those who say:
“I cannot be happy because I am sick, because I have no money, Because it’s too cold, because they insulted me, Because someone stopped loving me, Because someone didn’t appreciate me!”
But what you don’t know is that you can be happy even though you are sick, whether it is too hot, whether you have money or not, Whether someone has insulted you, Or someone didn’t love you, or hasn’t valued you.
BEING HAPPY is an attitude about life and each one of us must decide !
BEING HAPPY, depends on you !
CA Suraj Lakhotia
(IndigoLearn)
(4898 Points)
Replied 05 June 2013
Thoughts from Chanakya
1) "Learn from the mistakes of others... you can't live long enough to make them all yourselves!!"
2)"A person should not be too honest. Straight trees are cut first and Honest people are screwed first."
3)"Even if a snake is not poisonous, it should pretend to be venomous."
4)"There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no friendship without self-interests. This is a bitter truth."
5)" Before you start some work, always ask yourself three questions - Why am I doing it, What the results might be and Will I be successful. Only when you think deeply and find satisfactory answers to these questions, go ahead."
6)"As soon as the fear approaches near, attack and destroy it."
7)"The world's biggest power is the youth and beauty of a woman."
8)"Once you start a working on something, don't be afraid of failure and don't abandon it. People who work sincerely are the happiest."
9)"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all direction."
10)"God is not present in idols. Your feelings are your god. The soul is your temple."
11) "A man is great by deeds, not by birth."
12) "Never make friends with people who are above or below you in status. Such friendships will never give you any happiness."
13) "Treat your kid like a darling for the first five years. For the next five years, scold them. By the time they turn sixteen, treat them like a friend. Your grown up children are your best friends."
14) "Books are as useful to a stupid person as a mirror is useful to a blind person."
15) "Education is the best friend. An educated person is respected everywhere. Education beats the beauty and the youth."
| Originally posted by : CA Prashant Gupta | ||
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really good carrying the lot of pressure is not good from today I am droping the weights from me :) |
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N rightly said....
BEING HAPPY is an attitude about life and each one of us
must decide !
BEING HAPPY, depends on you !
Thanx sir for sharing.....
all d wonderful thngs in 1 post............
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