Guide plzz

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monuu

student

46 Points Joined March 2013

Hi, i am monu. I am 23 years old. I will be appearing for ca final in nov 2013 for group 2 only first time. I have already cleared my 1^st group in last nov 2012. Actually I postponed my exams from may 2013 to nov 2013 coz of serious health problem. As I m doing selfstudy for idt & isca & not started study yet.. so it was not possible for me to prepare for may 2013 still my health condition is not too perfect.i need daily exercise.i am at home since oct 2011 when articleship ended. Sometime I feel doubt abt my lyf whether everyone is going ryt?? Coz a lot people & frnds says that abhi tak job bhi start nahi kiya??? Wat u do whole day at home?? Feels sometyms bad. I knw if I start my job I will not be able to give my proper tym to my studies. As I m apeearing 1^st tym for 2^nd grp and syllabus not yet completed even half its not good to start job that moment..i know I can do it..but lack of courage…sometime feel like quitting and finding job coz of stress whether I will be able to do it..my past confidence is lost..i need motivation & gud guidance..plzz guide me..

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David

Apprenticeship

128 Points Joined June 2012

Hi monu let me first congratulate you on reaching ur group 2. Finals aged 23 despite your health condition .... That by itself shows the determination and focus that u have towards your goals...

secondly... Me being 21 and just starting ipcc while most of my frends are busy with jobs straight off college, I know how it feels when people say that u should get a job, ur getting old, marriage, responsibilities blah ...blah................I feel that though people say 1001 things and advice on what should be done and what should not be done,

AT THE END OF THE DAY NO ONE WILL STAND BY U IN UR TIME OF NEED be it friend or otherwise so u are on your own.......

My suggestion would be to ignore what others say and do what u feel is right .......remember NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR GOALS .... As long as you are determined and focused nothing can change what should rightfully come your way....

time is just a number remove it from the equation of life and everything will run smoothly.......

I can't advice u on ur prep for finals coz I lack the level of knowledge to do so at this time.....but I would certainly advice you that whenever in doubt just close your eyes and let ur mind speak to itself and follow what your heart tells you to do ........it may sound a bit filmy but trust me it will definitely show results......

ITS YOUR LIFE AND NO ONE ELSE HAS ANY RIGHT TO TELL U HOW U SHOULD LIVE IT....

Take care of ur health and then focus your energy towards ur goals you will definitely succeed...

CA DIGANT CHADHA

Academician & Consultant

195 Points Joined August 2010

sir well it doesnt matter at all that your friends of ur age are earning even now and u r sitting at home.................at u r ryt if u think about earning money now..........there is a big probability that u wont become a ca or it will be really tough..........so its a serious advice to only concentrate on your studies and self study is perfect if you are self disciplined and who knows you come up with really good marks.

thank you