When a Kid Falls Down, Whether he is hurt or not,, to get the attention,, he cries to the fullest,, till the time his mum comes & says "grow up my kid, it's nothing, u'll be fine"
Right from that moment he gets up, stops crying & again starts enjoying the play,, As if he was never hurt.. just because he got what he wanted-- Affection,attention & comfort that, someone is always by his side & he is never going to be alone...
This was the power of his mom's love, which washed away his pain. He got stonger & cheerfull & again got involved into the task he was doing with happy emotions...
Only this love And affection Is needed by a grown up, when he falls down during the course of his life's struggles.
Though there was only one person- His Mom, in his childhood by his side & now there are many, as he has "grown Up" & made many of his "own relations"... Still he can't get that Special Attention & affection From any of those "So Called" FAKE relations He made.
Though He is really hurt this time,
though he needs real attention to stand up firmly again,
Though he is in Need Of Real moral support & Strength this time,,
But Yet!! there is no one by his side this time...
He is all alone & can't talk about his worries with that childhood friend-- his mom even this time.. because he does not want to see her tensed at this age..
Now he realises , Those chidhood injuries were better.. though even on having only one person by his side that time,, he could get up with a grace & forget all what happened ...
But now as he has" grown up " what his mother used to tell him to be in his childhood.... He has no one too support...
That is the reason his mom used too say "grow Up my kid!" at That time..
THIS THING MEANT Be strongg as a grown up,, coz for grown ups , there is no one by there side. they always have to do everything alone of their own. they always have to bear the pain alone, of their own..
Our mothers used to say this in our childhood , coz they knew, they wont be able to get us up from every situation when we'll grow up..
If we all could understand this little thing in our childhood,, then no one of us was ever hurt, ever in pain. We all could be strong enough to face every situation physically, menatally and emotionally.
Whatever a mother says , says for a reason. We Will realise the worth of what she said earlier , sooner or later..
So respect that angel sent by God especially for you. in your childhood she used to be your support And as u have "Grown Up" now Be there for her every moment. that is the real maening of growng up!!
Coz we can get anything in this world after coming on this earth But without MOTHER we could Not Step In Here...!!!!
Dedicated to my mother... happy valentines week Mommy... !!!
CAclubindia
