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extreme depression problem? pls help me

lakshay (ipcc) (581 Points)

26 March 2011

i have my ipcc exams in may 2011....i remember that day 4 months back..i promised myself that i will get a rank in ipcc..though i am just an average student..

since then i have been out of my home only twice or thrice...i try to study all day long..14-15 hours..i have no friends...i just talk to my mom ..woh bhi thoda sa..dats it..

now suddenly i dont know what has happened to me..i have lost interest and feeling depressed...

it happened 2 days back...i sat to study at evening and i started panicking

since then i am in deep depression..i hate books now..i am trying to studying now...i want to throw these books in dustbin...seriously i am crying...since 2 days i am also suffering from diahoria and i have problem in breathing also...my parents have told me that leave both grps now..only concentrate on grp 1 now..as u r panicking ..bt phir bi i am depressed badly....i am badly scared of people..that what wud they say and think if i dont pass...and wud my 4 months hard work go waste?...

pls help me guys..these are the toughest days of my life........pehle i used to feel that getting out of depression is easy bt i have realised it now that it is the worst feeling....i want to die ..seriously....

what shud i do friends???

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Ritesh Indian Son[CMA*CS*CA] (" Simple Living High Thinking ") (4117 Points)
Replied 26 March 2011

Hey dnt be depressed my frnd........i am also suffering same prb. as u..........but den also just thinking one thing only that I will give my best and rest is depend on God.................Well d more we think d more we get depress, well u can take small small break while u studying if u cant study 4 long tym......well i used to just walk once and den again i used to start my studies.........

Dnt think abt people, they will say everything which we dnt want by them..they just disturbing us with lots of negative thoughts...........so my dear frnd BE POSITIVE and u will definately pass with flying colors......:)

" WINNERS NEVER QUIT AND QUITTERS NEVER WIN "

" FAIL IS THE REAL TASTE OF SUCCESS "

Just go through my post...........it will definatly help u out.....

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Indranil Dutta (CS Student) (83 Points)
Replied 26 March 2011

Dear Jagat, nothing in our lives is as easy as it may seem..We all face difficulties at every step of our lives..But a true winner is one who can fight all odds..Don't give up so easily, friend..Believe in urself..Whatever has happened has already happened..Thinking about it again will only make u feel worse..U can come out of this very easily if u try..

Practice meditation which I think u need right at this moment..Calm down..n hav the belief that "whatever may come, I hav the capability to tackle it"..U need to hav nerves of steel to face the corporate world..U hav already chosen the path in which u will walk, SO PLEASE DON'T LOOK BACK AGAIN !! Once again, "YOU CAN DO IT"..BE a TIGER, Jagat..Lead a new life from today..

n one more thing- I don't think that you should confine urself to the four walls f ur room n study all through the day !! Go out,enjoy with ur friends, a few hours of study with full concentration is enough..u don't need to sacrifice ur life fr studies..That's all friend, BE POSITIVE !! That's LIFE !!

-Indranil.

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hi jagat pls dont panic.u know when going gets tought,then tough gets going.and nothing is impossible in this world.there is no need to seclude urself and study all day long.go out.talk to ur freinds.go for a movie.relax urself.nw its time to show others what u r and what r ur capabilities nw u can not afford to back out.hv faith in urself as well as in ur destiny.y r u panicing?exams r yet to come.u hv done so much of hard work nw when its time to get reward of ur hard work u cannot afford to b depressed.c'mon dude tighten up ur belt and go for it.i know u will surely come out with flying colours.and there is no need to get a rank if u'll manage to fare thru it wud b an awesome feeling.dont deprive urself of experiencing to b ca final student.it feels really awesome.u r jst few miles away nw pls dont stop.there is nothing wrong,u r the same person,same dream then what r u waiting for?go for it.there is no need to b depressed its time to show others ur capabilities.dont let ur weaknesses overpower u.stand up straight with ur head held firmly on ur shoulders and show it to others that what u r.pls hv faith in god.if u'll help urself then only god will help u as god help those who help themselves.so jst forget abt everything else,dont think abt fail or pass,jst dream urself as a ca and c it wud act as a driving force for u to put in more efforts and get thru in exams.all the very very best.

Rahul (2nd group pending) (97 Points)
Replied 31 March 2011

Hey Jagat.... everything gonna be fine..... bolte hain na jab hosle buland ho toh manzille apne aap hasil ho jaati hai. I think you should stop studying for two to three days and try to get a walk outside your home and try to watch movies and do stuff which you feel like. Secondly try to do Meditation so that you can think in one direction. Hey if you face failure you would be the one on the receiving end and if you get sucess, then it would be only you who would have a taste of it, not others. Last thing which i feel, dont be hypocrite, be natural. Dont do stuff by thinking what other will think, do the way you like. See your mom and dad, they would be having more trust on you then anyone else on this earth. So think and start working for them and not for the world. So dont think about the world, those who speak rubbish are generally good for nothing people.

SORRY IF ANY OF MY STATEMENT HURT YOU...... BE A MAN DUDE....

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