Different dob in aadhar and pan card

Now thing is Mom Lost pan card  Mom only have Income Tax Login ID  and Can Login Online 

Since Mom dont have Pan card  cant update in  their Aadhar card  for  DOB  Purpose 

and For Reprint Pan Card Need DOB Certificate  Since its not matching with Aadhar card  cant update PAN CARD either I guess

also Their  Husband Middle name also different  in aadhar and pan card  

Totally confused should mom apply for new  PAN CARD  ?  is it possible to surrender and apply for new  dont knw wat to do