control ur temprament........

Ratan Deep Saxena (Asstt Manager (Accounts & Finance))   (2998 Points)

14 September 2009  

Make sure you read all the way down to the last sentence. (Most importantly the last sentence)

His Father gave him a bag of nails

and told him that every time he lost his

temper, he must hammer a nail into the back

of the fence.

The first day the boy had

driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next

few weeks, as he learned to control his


anger, the number of nails hammered daily


 gradually dwindled down.  He discovered 
it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.Finally the ! day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all.. He told his father

about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally  

 


 

able to tell his father that all the nails

were gone. The father took his son by the

hand and led him to the fence He said, "You

 

have done well, my son, but look at the

holes in the fence. The fence will never be

 

the same. When you say things in anger,


they leave a scar just like this one.  You can put

a knife in a man and draw it out.

It won't matter how many times you say "I'm

 

sorry", the wound is still there.  A verbal

 

wound is as bad as a physical one.

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