can any one help me out.. my life is in ruins

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i just lost my first love  our 5 year relation is coming to an end..i cant concntrate on my studies n i think im losing it..if this continue for long im sure ill get mad..i cant think abt nethn else..ne tips to regain my old self..... plz help me..the worst thing is dat ..sometimes i feel its my fault coz i couldnt pass earlier n get a job..i think dats y her parents wont agree.. n she is not gona force her prents n wait...  i hate my self now..n lost interst in everything.. i talkd to my parents n they too can only sympathize ... some times i feel i dnt wnt to live ne more..  wta should i do?

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i can understand ur situation.....  i knw it not easy to get over it.. coz it happend wid me too.......  pray to god n hope for best

Kick off negative thoughts..And just start preparing even if you dont want to..Just go for it..you will surely gonna Crack out xams..Best of luck

OHH MYY GODD.....!!!!

Yes...Pray to god and hope for the best.....and i m feeling very emotional after reading this..(john & Manu)...but u have 2 regain ur life & should enjoy it..I know after reading this u both will think that it is easy to say but hard for u....

But u have to forgot ur past...& think for future....

Thanks for sharing ur personal problem...

HI JOHN & MANU.........

See, in such situations, God alone can be the truest Companion..........He alone can enstrenghthen u

......so u need His help now..........

Go to www.brahmakumaris.com

& find out who He really is, & how to establish a realtion with Him.........

Good luck bro!

hm :(

be wise for every problem you will have a solution ,Be cool and think what to do,you r only person can take the best solution about your problem

Hey yaaaaar put all ur worries aside and hav a deep study of subjects u know once u clear xam all those neglecting u will come for u.....

 

 

spend some time wid your frnds i think they are the best solution of this situation...

enjoy life yaaaaaaar sab thik ho jayega !!!

 

 

wish u a happy life dude.....!!

i understand your feeling now that what u are feeling now.......

i know that

u want to succeed in lif

but in this situation

you are not able to think the right way....

u are not Alone in this world

the same thing is happen with me also,

i also lost my First Love and After that 6 months i cant able to concentrate in any thing

and i lost 2 years Of My relationship,

:)

so i m telling u that 

My Dear Friend Please Think That

If u dont study

Then Nothing Could Be Happen In Your Life......

And Parents Of Your Friend Perhaps Agree With You Wen you are Self stablished.......
Just Try To Develop Your CArrer And Try To Not to think To that Topic.

Avoid All the Romantic Movies
All those Songs Related To relationship
And Avoid all those Your Friends Who are Having thier Girl Friends...
 

Just Try to Study
If u do Study one day U would be able To Study Regularly
 

And if u think all these things So the only one thing u get - That a Tension...........

So Avoid Tension Life is For Living Not For Curse.........

Think it once

I hope u get over this .....................

All the Best

hi i knw wat u feel lke

bt trust me

if u wnt let go of the situtation it will b too late

all i can say is it is dificlt

it is alwayss hard wen ts first lv

 i had broken up to

bt life is really true beautiful

choti choti chezo mein khushi dhundo yaar

see the smile on ur parents face

see the scenerary see the small children

see the world:)

I LIKE UR POST RIDDHI JI...!!!!!!!!!!!!1

i am shankar. very happy to inform u that i am love  failure guy ... see the problem in ca is no one understands u first . i will tell my story first u will decide which one is very worst.... i very average student upto school level after i joined for college i got my first mark in my class. then my education journey starts . i completed sucessfully my b.com with college first . i got my pg in central unive rsity in pondicherry university .lost my gold medal because of few marks .. after i got placed i have two option one is study and another one is job so i decided to take ca , then i joined, at that time i was 23.(the age for completing the ca course) i was in pe2 after inter u are eligible for articles . i took 3 attempts but 1 have got 69 percent in my pe2 . then i joined for articles...that time i met stupit girl my lover . story continue ..................................

 

DEDICATED TO THE PERSONS WHO FAILED IN NON SENSE CALLED LOVE AND SUCCEDED IN GREAT MANNER IN CA

it sure feel better wen u knw dat ther r people who went thru the same kind of situation n succeeded .. but still its nt so easy to recover frm this.... especially if u r a boy.. a girl can sit n study even if she comes to  know dat she is gonna be hanged tommorow.. but i think boys r a lil bit too sensitive in these matters..... they can concentrate only if they r sure dat all other issues r ok.... mind should be clean n worryless...... but  i think time will heal your pain dont cry over anyone who doesnt cry for u..  ur so called girlfriend will forget u within days n will enjoy life with some1 else..... so be realistic 

and shankarji ... please complete  ur story ;)

"This too will pass away".


Dear Friend,  Just keep the above words as one of the principles of life.

Its no good to suggest you to forget and move ahead. You will have to go thru this experience.

After few years, you will realize- how foolish to have been miserable foolishly for long over the love-breaking.

Love and love-break-up are part of  life. Life does not have to stop with it. Still many things to do and learn and experience as life flows. 

A more aspect of life ! =  Come out of Love-break and get busy to become a successful CA.

Now Love your Career=CA.

BEST WISHES.

Never forget= "This too will pass away".

 


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