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Being a failure

AASHI (Pursuing articleship) (1482 Points)

02 July 2012

How does i feel being a failure

https://justfeelingawesome.blogspot.in/2012/07/being-failure.html

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Sid19 (Associate) (44 Points)
Replied 02 July 2012

I am also going through the same phase. But dont loose hope!!

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CA Harshit Rastogi (Chartered Accountant) (722 Points)
Replied 02 July 2012

Hey..thats not good..here we all r ur frd on cci...

Never feel like this....and always be haapy....:)

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CA Anushree jain (CA) (1531 Points)
Replied 02 July 2012

aashi read your blog...

dont feel sad ...

it was never your fault so first of all stop blaiming yourself....because this will not help you...

secondly i wish, you get positive result all the best for that.....

and even after that you face any problem then think properly and give time to this though where you are lacking ??...........and is it the right field for you...??

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CA Anushree jain (CA) (1531 Points)
Replied 02 July 2012

and if you liking writing....go for it may be this is your destiny...kepp working hard for it....no need to be sad anymore...

its life everyone faces bad time but you dont need to give at any time ....

you will surely overcome all these problems...

good luck and heartiest wishes for your result...

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Aashi Dont Worry or get nervous

Its Still 4 months & you R an IPCC student, Dont get dejected, call me & I will tell you what & how to study & from where to study & be sure I garuntee that you will pass Bith groups this Nov 2012 attempt

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Ankita Methi (Credit Underwriter) (758 Points)
Replied 03 July 2012

Dear aashi........

rakh hosla wo manzar bh aayega...pyase ke pass chal kar kua bh aayega....

dont get disheartened.........zindagi ko dikha do ki agar wo tmhe rone ka ek karan de rahi hai to tm use phir bh hass ke dikha rahi ho........remember.....this too shall pass........

regarding frnns.....c'mon...we are always thr wth you.......smtyms this happens......and u need to be strong.....

i would suggest you to join a job........try karo........apne references aur links lagao.....you will definately get a job......job will bring awelcome change in ur lyf......dont leave Ca.......remember success is just a step away.....

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Ankita Methi (Credit Underwriter) (758 Points)
Replied 03 July 2012

and one more thing......never tag urself as failure........always proclaim urself as a winner

*RENU SINGH * (✩ §m!ℓ!ñġ €ม€§ fℓม!ñġ ђ♪gђ✩ ) (21627 Points)
Replied 03 July 2012

Dear , I had read ur last blog also when u posted that on cci ...

and now this one ...quite touching ...

But do I say one thing, Friends change with the phases of life ... You miss your old one , but still make new frns ...it's simply part of Life ...

I still miss my old frns ... And you know what , a grl who was my childhood frn , Sonia, I still remember all the time we spent with each other ........... But when she came to attend my sister's wedding (almost 12 years gap) , I really can't recongnise her ...... I was just saying that You are not That Sonia ( My old childhood frn) ... Even though I remember her mom and even said to her where is Sonia ...she didn't come along with you.

So finally after 15 minutes of my stupid sa argument , I realised that she was just the same one whom I missed ..................

just like all sweet memories are engraved in your heart ...So smile for those happy moments and create new more happy memories

So, we just remember the times and memories only and u can make frns at any stage of life ... their are many persons who fail ... Even I have seen a person who failed 6 time ,..... But didn't lose hope. And you know what ... He scored 83 marks in accounts ...

If he had also tagged himself as a loser, he can never score like this ... Just try and believe in your efforts

So stop tagging yourself as a failure ... just go with the new group of frns ... and we all invite you in our frnship group ...

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*RENU SINGH * (✩ §m!ℓ!ñġ €ม€§ fℓม!ñġ ђ♪gђ✩ ) (21627 Points)
Replied 03 July 2012

or ek baat bolu ....

People don't know you by your past in proffessional world , they just remember you for what you are Today

because every Expert is an amateur and novice in the Beginning

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Jasmine (CA Final) (209 Points)
Replied 03 July 2012

LAUGH AND THE WORLD LAUGHS WITH YOU ; CRY AND YOU CRY ALONE. This is really true. But concentrate on brighter side of life may be your so called friends were not true ones ONE OR TWO ARE FRIENDS MORE IS CROWD you will be making many other better friends this is just a phase of life and will pass by have self confidence and do not forget BOOKS ARE BEST FRIENDS Why to think about those who left you rather than valuing those who still care for you, obviously its your family your parents... PLEASE BE OPTIMPTIC

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HARISH MEHTA (Chartered Accountant) (210 Points)
Replied 03 July 2012

एक आदमी कहीं से गुजर रहा था, तभी उसने सड़क के किनारे बंधे हाथियों को देखा, और अचानक रुक गया. उसने देखा कि हाथियों के अगले पैर में एक रस्सी बंधी हुई है, उसे इस बात का बड़ा अचरज हुआ की हाथी जैसे विशालकाय जीव लोहे की जंजीरों की जगह बस एक छोटी सी रस्सी से बंधे हुए हैं!!! ये स्पष्ठ था कि हाथी जब चाहते तब अपने बंधन तोड़ कर कहीं भी जा सकते थे, पर किसी वजह से वो ऐसा नहीं कर रहे थे.
उसने पास खड़े महावत से पूछा कि भला ये हाथी किस प्रकार इतनी शांति से खड़े हैं और भागने का प्रयास नही कर रहे हैं ? तब महावत ने कहा, ” इन हाथियों को छोटे पर से ही इन रस्सियों से बाँधा जाता है, उस समय इनके पास इतनी शक्ति नहीं होती की इस बंधन को तोड़ सकें. बार-बार प्रयास करने पर भी रस्सी ना तोड़ पाने के कारण उन्हें धीरे-धीरे यकीन होता जाता है कि वो इन रस्सियों नहीं तोड़ सकते,और बड़े होने पर भी उनका ये यकीन बना रहता है, इसलिए वो कभी इसे तोड़ने का प्रयास ही नहीं करते.”
आदमी आश्चर्य में पड़ गया कि ये ताकतवर जानवर सिर्फ इसलिए अपना बंधन नहीं तोड़ सकते क्योंकि वो इस बात में यकीन करते हैं!!
इन हाथियों की तरह ही हममें से कितने लोग सिर्फ पहले मिली असफलता के कारण ये मान बैठते हैं कि अब हमसे ये काम हो ही नहीं सकता और अपनी ही बनायीं हुई मानसिक जंजीरों में जकड़े-जकड़े पूरा जीवन गुजार देते हैं.

याद रखिये असफलता जीवन का एक हिस्सा है ,और निरंतर प्रयास करने से ही सफलता मिलती है. यदि आप भी ऐसे किसी बंधन में बंधें हैं जो आपको अपने सपने सच करने से रोक रहा है तो उसे तोड़ डालिए….. आप हाथी नहीं इंसान हैं.

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Deepak kumar sharma (Govt. job) (2946 Points)
Replied 03 July 2012

Hey friend, I pray that you may pass this time. If it don't happen, try again in a different way. Start from today. Don't wait for resultsYou told that after being fail you called your friends and they did't responded you well. it means they don't take you seriously or they are not your true friends at all. I wish i may prove wrong on my this opinion. Answer them with success shot. Everything will be okay soon. Disconnect with all your contacts and just connect with studies until you pass..I believe that you have more knowledge due to your past failure. . Please read my article if it can help you. here is the link /articles/article_list_detail.asp?article_id=12894

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Ganeshbabu K (Audit and Tax Advisory) (48564 Points)
Replied 03 July 2012

EVEN I FELT LIKE COMMIT SU****E,DEPRESSED A LOT AFTER EXAMS,BUT IT IS NOT THE RIGHT THING

ON THAT TIME I FOUND A MEDICINE IN CACLUB INDIA IN THE FORM OF MOTIVATIONAL,INSPIRATIONAL ARTICLES BY ANKUR GARG SIR,

WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO NOW IS DONT THINK ABOUT ANY THING,JUST DO NOTHING ,AND SPEND HAPPILY WITH PARENTS,,

DON BOTHER WHAT PEOPLE WILL JUDGE ABOUT YOUR PERFORMANCE

BE PROUD THAT YOU ARE PURSUING WORLDS TOUGHEST EXAM

EVEN I GOT MOTIVATED AND STARTED PREPARATION AGAIN ONLY BECAUSE OF CA CLUB INDIA...

READ ANKUR GARG SIRS MOTIVATIONALL AND INSPIRATIONAL ARTICLES

I LOVE CA CLUB INDIA............

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hey Aashi it was a heart touching blog . some of my friends cleared 1st group in nov 2011 when i failed and I gave both groups in recent attempt and i know i will fail again , my frnds gave group 2 in this attempt and are expecting to pass , so now they will be CA final and I NOTHING . My father told in in the very beigning when i was joining this course " beta ye tumhare liye muskil hoga ye mat karo " but my mother motivated me i failed in the first attempt of cpt but failed but passed in the next attempt that too with good marks . But now life has become very depressing , but I know i will do it at any cost , so all the best you will do it . just keep the fire alive . DON'T STOP TILL U GET ENOUGH .