INFERIORITY COMPLEX-A BLACK POISON
FIRSTLY I WILL LIKE TO WISH A VERY GOOD MORNING TO ALL OF YOU.TODAY I WILL LIKE TO DIVERT ALL OF YOUR ATTENTION TOWARD A VERY MAJOR ISSUE.ALL OF YOU MUST BE AWARE OF THE FACT THAT NO ONE IN THIS WORLD ARE EQUAL.SOME ARE SHORT,SOME ARE BLACK,ANS SOME ARE FAT.....SOME OF YOU MUST HAVE UNDERSTAND WAT I AM TOKING ABOUT.SO WELL I AM TOKING ABOUT THE INFERIORITY COMPLEX,.FACED BY MANY OF US..
I WILL LIKE TO CLEAR ALL OF YOU THAT THIS TOPIC IS NOT RELATED TO C.A...BUT CAN AFFECT MANY OF OUR LIFE..IT CAN LEAD TO DEPRESSION,UNDER CONFIDENCE,ETC.
SO TODAY I WILL EXPLAIN THIS TOPIC TO ALL BY TELLING MY OWN STORY.....
FROM THE VERY FIRST I ENTERED 11 TH CLASS MANY OF MY FRIENDS HURTED ME BY SAYING CHOOTU,KAAALU..AT THAT TIME I FELT TOO BAD.IT BADLY AFFECTED ME AS WELL AS MY STUDIES.I LOST MY CONFIDENCE WHICH IN TURN TOOK ME TO DEPRESSION.JUST N JUST BECAUSE OF THIS I FAILED IN 11 TH CLASS..WEN MY PARENTS ASKED ME HOW DID THIS HAPPEN ...THEN I EXPAINED THEM MY POSTION..THEY IMMEDIATELY TOOK ME TO AN EXPERT....AND HE BOOSTED MY CONFIDENCE BY SAYING.....................
" BEAUTY LIES INSIDE NOT OUTSIDE " " IF U ARE INTERNALLY STRONG NO SOCIAL POWER CAN EXPLOIT U " HE FURTHER EXPLAINED BY SAYING ABRAHIM LINCON WAS ALSO A BLACK,BUT STILL HE WAS SO SUCCESSFUL "..HE FURTHER SAID REMEBER A STORY IN ENGLISH SUBJECT WERE A BOY WHOSE FACE GOT BURNT BY CHEMICAL,WHO ALSO LEAD A SECLUDED LIFE..HE HAD NO FRIENDS,NO HAPPINESS ONLY WAT HE WAS HAVING WAS JUST SORROW...BUT WEN HE MET A MAN WHO WAS HAVING ONLY 1 LEG AND SAW HIM HAPPY N LEADING A JOYFUL LIFE..HE CHANGED....THE OLD MANS WORDS " IF U WILL SEE WORLD IN A POSITIVE WAY U WILL GET POSITIVE RESPONSE...SO THERE IS NOTHING LIKE THAT IF UR FACE IS BURNT NO BODY WILL LIKE TO BE UR FRIEND..HE FURTHER SAID THAT A FLOWER NAMED CACTUS,HAS ALL KAANTS ALL OVER ITS BODY,STILL IT IS CONSIDERED AS THE KING OF DESERT..SO ITS UPTO U HOW U SEE THIS WORLD " INFLUENCED HIM SOO MUCH THAT,NOW HE STARTED SEEING THIS LIFE FROM A DIFFERENT VISION...
HIS WORDS CHANGED MY LIFE AND I STARTED BELIEVING IN ME..MY LIFE CHANGED AND NOW U ALL CAN SEE CHANGE IN MY PIC AND ALSO I AM WRITING A POST ON ME.....THAT SHOWS THAT I DONT CARE ABOUT THESE OUTSIDE FEATURES AS THEY HAVE TO FINISH ONE DAY...BUT UR INTERNAL POWER WILL ALWAYS BE WITH U...
2...SOME PICS TO DESCRIBE MY POINT
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3..HOW TO OVERCOME..............?
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A...Bear in mind that every human being in this world is different; no one face or body is the same. Your 'inferiority' as you may refer to it, can also be seen as a unique or individual quality. What makes you feel these things are 'inferior' to everyone else? If there is no norm amongst human beings, how can there possibly be any form of inferiority
B...Ignore what others may perceive of your 'inferiority', 99.9% of people you walk past in the streets and towns pay no attention to you for any reason
C...If you have a complex about a specific body part, think hard about what makes them 'inferior' to everyone else's. Write this on paper if it helps. Seriously think about the logic of this; you're not going to seriously get stopped in the street for having what you think of as 'inferior' hands or feet.
D...If you find your inferiority difficult to deal with, enlist the help of a friend. Good friends will help you achieve your goals, whatever they may be. Good friends will tell you the truth, and you can work together on ways to make you feel better about you self. If you find it difficult to talk with friends, ask them if they feel inferior sometimes; you may be surprised how worried people get
4....CONCLUSION
I HOPE THAT ALL OF YOU WILL LIKE MY EFFORT AND WILL APPRECIATE IT TOO.....I JUST WANT THAT ALL OF U WILL WILL IMPLEMENT THE ABOVE POINTS AND WILL DEFIANTELY HELP THE DISEASE PERSON......
ANXIESLY WAITING FOR ALL OF UR REPLY....
CAclubindia
