A story of grit and determination

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Dear Friends,

Yesterday CA Final Results were declared. Some triumphed some devastated. Students who could not pass would have felt that entire world is against them, they are unlucky and many more such negetive thinking as if this is the end of the road, as if there can not be a worse situation than this. I dont blame them as i have been in this situation and have felt this pain. Today i am sharing a true story of "Grit and sheer determination of a 19 year old Girl Rekha". Please read this and think. We all are same, what makes the difference is our "Grit and Determination". 

Be Gritty...Be Determined...

God Bless You

Regards

CMA. Sanjay Gupta

 

 

A story of grit and determination

 

The staff conducting checking of the examinees at the Ramabai Ambedkar Government College in Uttar Pradesh’s Jyotiba Phule Nagar, about 400 km from here, was shocked.

 

When 19-year-old Rekha entered the gates of the college to appear for the examinations, they could not see her hands at all!

Their reaction was justified as Rekha, a student of Bachelor of Arts first year, indeed did not have hands. She had lost both her hands in an accident a few years ago. What remained was only a little over half portion of the left arm.

The staff on invigilation duty in the examination room was in for more surprise when they handed over the paper to Rekha wondering as to how the girl would write the answers.

“How will you write the paper? You don’t have hands,” the invigilators. They got a prompt reply: “I do have determination.” Then Rekha brought out her pen, put it between her teeth and giving it the right direction with the remaining half portion of her left arm, began to write the answers of her home science paper.

The surprise continued for the staff. Just when they were wondering if Rekha required more time to write the answers, the gritty girl handed them over her answer scriptt ten minutes before the scheduled time and quietly left the examination hall.

A resident of Rajhaua village at Jyotiba Phule Nagar, Rekha had to face a lot of difficulties after losing both her hands.

“I wanted to study but people said that I will never be able to write. I wanted to prove them wrong,” Rekha said adding that she had to practise a lot to learn to write with her teeth.


 

And she did prove everyone wrong with her sheer determination and grit. After completing her intermediate from her village school, she took admission to a BA course at a degree college in nearby Kaurala.

It remains to be seen if Rekha was able to answer the required number of questions as it could be known only after the publication of the results. 

 

Source: https://www.deccanherald.com/content/107257/a-story-grit-determination.html

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Great post sir ji, Really very inspired one and very motive post..All of us should learn from this and should convert our failure to success..

Thanks for sharing sir..

Like to add one more..

Regards

Balu

 

Rajni Gopal is India’s first visually impaired woman to become a Chartered Accountant. Currently working with India’s leading software companies, it has taken Rajani immense grit, perseverance and patience to reach where she stands.

Rajani Gopal has come a long way after losing her eye sight. She treads on paths that make even sighted people think twice before taking up. Behind this chartered accountant, Veena player and social worker, lies a determined woman who has defied all logic when it comes to success. Let’s talk to Rajani Gopal and find out more about her.

You work with a reputed IT company. Tell us about your job profile.

I work in the Finance Department. My profile is to work on Indian & U.S.A. Generally Accepted Accounting Practices.

Where were you working before your current assignment? How did you get this break?

I was working for Indian Group of Hotels as Community co-ordinator. I had sent my bio-data to the placement cell of I.C.A.I. and that is how I got this break.

How have you adjusted to your work environment and how have your colleagues responded.

It has been comfortable to adjust to work environment as I am quite versatile on computers. Moreover my work to a large extent is on those applications that extensively support screen reading software.

My colleagues respond very sensibly. There is no discrimination of any sort. Now they know when I need assistance and come forward to give the same. The work atmosphere is very comfortable and friendly.

blind-ca1Becoming a C.A. is a tough task even for sighted people. As a blind person what motivated you to take up this subject and how did you manage?

That is what many told me when I thought of taking up C.A. as a career. But let me tell you, determination and commitment can help you achieve those milestones which seem difficult otherwise.

I lost vision in my right eye by the time I completed my graduation. I faced few interviews where my candidature was not considered because of my vision problem. I realised that I should have a better education to get a decent and dignified job. At this juncture I came to know about Chartered Accountancy. By this time I had learnt to pursue my studies on my own. I thought if I can pursue B.Com on my own then why not C.A.?

Of course, pursuing the course was not easy. It would be difficult for me to read for long time. I had to read keeping the book close to my eyes. Commuting was also quite difficult. For a moment my spirits would be shattered. But I would realise that this is not the way to tackle a problem. I will have to find out ways and means of solving this. I would read for sometime and then close my eyes and try to recollect whatever I would have studied. This way I was not wasting my time and was also giving rest to my eyes, which I needed the most. As far as commuting was concerned, I would prefer to walk short distances, as catching the public transport was difficult. For long distances, invariably I would take the public transport. It was quite risky but I had to take the calculated risk.

After I lost vision in my left eye too, I had to look for means to continue my studies and clear my examinations. But the important hurdle was to accept that I am visually challenged. This did take some time as I would relate myself with my friends who either had a good job or were happily married. I realised that I should come out of this trauma. Sahaja Yoga meditation came to my rescue. The meditation gave the overall balance which I needed the most. I realised that I should accept the situation and go ahead, instead of brooding. I came to know about the screen reading software and learnt how to use computers. My urge to pursue the course was rekindled. I got all the materials converted to soft copy and started studying. For few subjects I took the assistance of volunteers. I also had to learn how to communicate with the scribe, as I was availing scribe facility for the first time.

What are the special assistive tools you use for help at work? Especially when tackling numbers.

As I have already mentioned, I extensively use computers with screen reading software. My assignment does not include going through any written documents. By using Excel and other M.S. Office applications, I am able to manage my job quite comfortably.

How did you develop your eye problem?

I was prescribed penicillin tablets for common cold. This was given without test dosage and resulted in an allergic reaction which in medical terminology is known as “Steven Johnson Syndrome”. My vision started deteriorating gradually. This was coupled with growth of eye lashes inside the eyes which would constantly itch. I had to visit the doctor almost twice a week to get the lashes plucked. But the damage to the cornea was done and doctors were helpless.

Tell us a bit about your school and college days.

Early school days were as any other normal child. After the allergy, things changed. Because of redness in the eyes, quite a few classmates would avoid me. I had to hear to lot of sympathies from relatives and friends. It would be very difficult to listen. I would try to be all alone by myself. I developed the habit of reading to overcome my loneliness. Initially I would cry and weep. As I grew up I didn’t feel like doing that, for I knew that my parents would be disturbed. I learnt to keep all my emotions to myself. I had very few friends.

At my college things were little different. I was matured enough to handle the situation. I did have friends who were sensible enough. In fact in the final year of my graduation, my friends would write the notes for me, get the books from library, for I couldn’t attend the college due to surgery on my right eye.

What kind of support did you get from family and friends?

There was complete support from my immediate family members. Neither my parents nor my brothers made me to feel at any point of time that I had vision problem. My parents would encourage me in all my ventures as they would encourage my brothers. Even after I lost my vision completely, they would behave as if nothing had happened and gave me all the emotional support.

Though I had very few friends, they were quite sensible and helped me whenever I needed them most. Moreover they would boost my confidence and behave as they would with other “normal” friends.

What are your interests and hobbies?

As already mentioned, I practice meditation-Sahaja Yoga. I enjoy cooking. I play chess. I have learnt to play Veena. I listen to lot of music. I volunteer my services to physically, visually and economically challenged students by providing assistance in their studies.

Tell us any interesting experience you’d like to share.

There have been quite a lot of experiences which have moulded my personality.

As my vision deteriorated gradually, I could see the helplessness of doctors and my parents. At such heart breaking moments, each mile stone in my education would motivate me to go further.

But if you want to know of any particular incident that changes the course of my life, I feel this is it.

Around the time when I lost vision in both my eyes, my father was diagnosed with Leukaemia. It was the prime age of my life and with all confusion I was totally lost and mentally upset. One evening when I just couldn‘t control my emotions, my brother recommended me meditation. He advised that I should do it with open mind and take as hypothesis. I could see within a week that my overall personality was in complete balance and I obtained the necessary confidence and inner strength which I needed the most and which any amount of external counselling wouldn’t have done.

Now I feel, everything that happened was with some purpose and has helped me become a better person move ahead in life with greater strength and confidence

Thanks Balu Ji for sharing this wonderful real life example of  "Grit and Determination"....

its so nice... thank you to both of you for sharing.... wink

Such rare feats will always shroud our ( the ones who are all-equipped yet find a way to be depressed) conscience , " Do I really have the right to feel let down by life? Can't I achieve the same feat with all the parts of my body remaining intact?..." I dare say that everyone will feel similarly - at least once - after reading or hearing real-life stories of such seemingly unreal human accomplishments.

Rekha and Rajani..., seems like we never met and really dont know the meaning of what actually struggle is???, We simply make a simple issue as a mountain, and feel we have the biggest sufferers on the earth.., just think if our tiny problems are the biggest then what do these two girls name their fate??? 
Though destiny snatched their hands / vision, but failed to snatch their determination, their will to achieve what they want... 
All the very best to Rekha and Rajani.. May god bless them with happy and successful life.. 
Sanjay bhaiah, and Balu sir, Thankyou for sharing, I am sure, Now I can try hard to achieve that strong determination..,

From disability to ability

Here are two women who have proved that physical disability is no obstacle if one has the ugre to overcome their handicap for achieving golry. Anjali Aurora and Neha Bansali are the two women who have made themselves role models with their self-confidence and determination and set an example to thousands of women. Both these women had spent their childhood singing, playing and dancing like any girl of their age. But their lives did not proceed evenly for them. Anjali grew blind. Neha Bansali who confirmed to the wheel chair when she hurt her spine. Yet they out-grew their disabilities. Anjali Aurora became the assistant manager in Air-force Authority. Neha Bansali is a successful Chartered Accountant. These two women who perform their duties with assistance from a companion stand as an ideal to the society. The Ability Foundation of Chennai presented them with National Awards. Their experiences in their words.

Neha Bansali:

 

 

I was born in Delhi and grew up there. I belong to a middle class family. I have a gounger brother and a younger sister. When I was playing with my friends my spine received a minor injury. But because of infection the entire spine got affected. As a result I could not sit up and got confined to the wheel chair. Except my right hand I could not move any part of my body. I had to depend on others to attend to the daily ablutions. I wanted to commit suicide. The support given by my father and mother, my sister and brother kept me up, I took the +2 exam. I scored 92% in the exams. This achievement gave me confidence and encouragement. I took the chartered accountant’s final exam and stood tenth in the national ranking. This success made me live and I grew up from then on.

I, who was confined always to the wheel chair with ability to move only one hand, developed a great urge to achieve something notable. I could secure a job as a chartered accountant in a firm and became the chief accountant. I co-ordinated the duties of 300 exployees and solved the problems of our clients all over the country. Though disabled and faced many problems, I could overcome problems with self-confidence. I want to convey to other physically challenged persons that though it is inevitable to seek help form others, if only we can mould our lives as a model to be followed by others. It gives us great strength. If any one of you need any help in the chartered accountancy course you can visit me in neha.bansal 29 @ rediffmail. Com.

 

See this video

CA Neha Bansal Strong will power

 

 

Originally posted by : Siddharth Bumb

its so nice... thank you to both of you for sharing.... 

THANKS FOR SHARING.... GREAT STORIES  OF OUR OWN PROFESSIONAL COLLEAGUES WHICH ARE FULL OF  DETERMINATION AND DEDICATION.

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Balu Ji,

With tears in my eyes, i m writing this, after reading an watching video of neha bansal, HATS OFF SIR.

 

Really great sharing by both of you BALU..... and CMA. Sanjay Gupta dignatories!!

 

Thanks so much!!!

 

 

 

thank u both of u sir... really these are examples of  strong determination and dedication 

Dear Sir,

Really great and hats off to their sheer grit & determination. 

Honour you sir for sharing such a rare story of great jubiliant that it can lift the spirit in a paralysed body. 

Its really awakening & strong alarm for those who give lame excuses & blame their luck and others for not clearing thier exams.

 

Really a heart touching story .

 

Thanking you

Originally posted by : Harini
Rekha and Rajani..., seems like we never met and really dont know the meaning of what actually struggle is???, We simply make a simple issue as a mountain, and feel we have the biggest sufferers on the earth.., just think if our tiny problems are the biggest then what do these two girls name their fate??? 
Though destiny snatched their hands / vision, but failed to snatch their determination, their will to achieve what they want... 
All the very best to Rekha and Rajani.. May god bless them with happy and successful life.. 
 


I totally agree with hariniji...thanx a lot  Balu sir and Sanjay sir for the motivating real life incidents ....
 

I came back in and I agree that reading your post have given me so much inspiration. I feel like I have this great secret now...

This story tells that sometimes we don't trust on god and ourselves...

If we have dedication then we all can do it.....

And also thankx to Balu for Sharing another story....


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