Why shall I congratulate someone? Why shall I wish them success when I myself failed?
These thoughts generally trigger out in our mind. Isn't it?
Amidst the competitive world we all are chasing our dreams. Everyone wants to be on the top of the success bar. But in this race of living a successful and prosperous life we tend to neglect the attitude of appreciating others on their achievements.
Do you know why this happens? This is so because we are psychologically geared to compete for resources. Our brains are trained to compare and contrast. How far others have gone? How much are they making? If they are doing better we tend to develop feeling of jealousy.
Don't you think we shall stop being envious of others?
Rather we shall enculcate the attitude of growing together. The adage “you reap what you sow” captures the value of thinking well of others, you will eventually receive what you sow. It is said that when we give good to the universe, good things come back to us in multiples. It is the LAW OF NATURE.
Now, One question might arise in your mind- how can we wish well for others or how can we help others to be successful?
You need not to think out of the box to bring this change. Just by adapting this attitude in your lifestyle will bring about profound changes in your life. Giving to those in need helps ease tension and anxiety. That also applies to our kindness in dispersing words of encouragement. And it may also make you happier to think of others in a loving and compassionate way.
It may be by congratulating your colleagues even your competitors for their achievements. They will definitely feel good and will develop a feeling of generosity towards you. They will never miss a chance to help you in need or encourage you in phases of downfall.
Let others shine - even if you feel left out. We should all be doing our best to carry the world on our shoulders and help make it a better place.
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