Failure is itself a word which cant be accepted, not even hardly. and the word again and again shows its miserablity when a person fails somewhere ,.like learning cycle, cooking, biking etc ..failure doesn’t bother too much.bt failure word in exam matters a lot ..because a whole time effort of around 1 yr lost in a moment.
Failure even its expected or unexpected the person feels like his whole word had been lost, has come 2 an end even though the pain is unmeasurable but still why it happen so again and again .
Lets take an example ..an average student who read almost everyday but still fails, he make a try again and make its efforts double this time but still he fails ..now he thoughts he should give one group or both ? how to study both ? can he do it ? what could be the reason ?
Confidence --- this is the first thing that break out firstly. When a person fails his confidence turned into half and again and again failure make it more worse.
The person start suspecting his own ability now .now he feels like he can do anything .
Dreams--- for this read article how to study . please find the attachment. How dream affect CA may be you can resemble your story with it.
Study material---sometime the books we read we don’t understand them properly. We cant make a summary in our mind of what we have read.n because of lack of time we afraid to change the book also. Because a new book means new beginning. The result of half understanding.
Personal issues---arguments with boss, at home make mind full of these thoughts which create a hinderance in peace of mind and cool study .
Time factorits really a big thing for failure. Time is short but the course is so lengthy. So nothing can be done properly. trying to focus on everything makes everything slipped from our hands.
Repetition when a person fails he has to study whatever he has read earlier. which make study boring and lethargic.
Past experience---troubles a lot. like I have learned it by heart ,but I couldn’t attempt this question in my exam ..sh*t yaar I feel so bad this kinda feeling came when a person study and then he got distracted.
Before exam ---even though reading so much and countless efforts, when the person came2 exam hall his whole courage get vanished like A/c was tough for me earlier also..its the same case again . I haven’t done it if this question come ?my last time marks were just 32 what will happen ? how will I attempt that ?
Exam hall--- oops!!! Ur fear become true..now the same question comes which you didn’t done .it comes on the first page of ur question paper. Ur energy to give exam become too low..but still you sit and give exam but that question still comes in your mind while answering other question ans ..how will I attempt my 1st question n so on .
Ur attention which you could give on other answers got reduced your whole fear led you to the grave of failure.
Points to tackle
Positive mind---- don’t focus on getting 60 marks because after time you will think how will I get 60 marks ..but think like I have got 32 marks I need to get 8 marks more only. I can do it. It will help in boosting ur confidence level.
Study goal make small goals in ur study . like I would finish this by this month..if you have done only 90% of ur goal in that subject and time is finished then flip to another subject not on finishing 10% because other subject is as well important.
Self centered because my friend has done this book..i have just done this lesson . stop comparing .it will just reduce ur power to take a step.
Repetition I am perfect in this I had done this question good earlier also. i don’t need to give too much imp upon it stay away from this feeling because you might make mistake in your favorite topics you tend to forget focus.
Person to share ---- if u have ur gf /bf don’t think them as trouble..like I cant share.. share ur views..what should I do? He /she will help you a lot in your gaining confidence they know you by your heart .they can you give you idea. and if ur gf/bf is also doing the same attempt to isse badiya kya baat hai . Take advice from elders they can give you tips.
Stop fear --- its a most important aspect don’t fear and follow your whole mind ideas with conviction . like my style is learning from notes ..bt I don’t have time ,..now what >> make notes if your time allows so ..otherwise make pencil marks on books to help you.
Get walking, try to be on your track as much as possible , conclusion can be only
An ant can cross thousand acres but a person not walking cant even move a step.
These are just suggestion you can add many more points as per your own circumstances.
Regards,
Naina.
CAclubindia
